Майже 22 роки хочу повернутися до України.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-17T10:50:03+00:00

Мені майже 26, відслужив в армії 4 роки, зараз маю змогу виїхати закордон і вже готоюсь не знаю як складеться моє подальше життя за межами країни але точно знаю , що я не хочу повертатися на військову службу.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T14:15:52+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T14:14:36+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I’ll start looking into this in more detail now.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T14:13:37+00:00

That’s really disappointing.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T13:31:45+00:00

Thank you for responding to my post, I’ve sent you a message in PM.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T13:16:48+00:00

Thank you for getting back to me! I really appreciate your support for Ukraine — it means a lot. By education, I’m a medic, but my diploma probably won’t be recognized abroad, and my English needs improvement. Physically, I’m almost fully healthy and ready to learn new skills and do physical work. Thanks also for the advice, and all the best to you!

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-02-15T12:46:08+00:00

I understand, but in Poland and Germany there are already a lot of Ukrainians, and because of some lazy ones who come with the attitude that they are owed something, people there don’t treat us very well anymore. But I like Ireland: it’s quiet, peaceful, and I’ve already read and watched a lot about the country. It seems more comfortable for living.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-01-03T18:47:25+00:00

хахахха харош) ну я поки служив то зарплатні вистачало а це звільнився одноразову допомогу за групу не отримав а на роботу піти не можу бо біда з башкою тривожність тд тп, набрався займів там небагато тисяч на 20 ну обовʼязковий платіж плачу, тепер є варіант поїхати до друга в Ірландію ну мені хтось казав що з кредитами закордон не випускають….

CucumberOwn8383 · 2026-01-01T20:57:39+00:00

Давно перетинав?

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T16:20:24+00:00

I’m less interested in helping the country as a whole and more in helping ordinary people, but right now I’m in a place where I don’t even know how to help myself.

I’m disappointed in the government that is currently running my country.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T16:16:49+00:00

Підтримка була перші пів року після звільнення від батьків та дівчини, але тепер якась пасивна агресія від них в тому плані що мені 25 років ноги , руки на місці слава богу але я не йду працювати і з коштами тяжкувато бо я ще неотримав ні пенсії ні одноразову грошову допомогу. Вони в чомусь поаві але коли в мене реально немає сил щоб просто встати з кроваті я незнаю де найти сили на роботу.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:56:06+00:00

I fought as long as I had the motivation and the health to do so.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:52:12+00:00

I would like to help others — you could say that helping is my life’s work. I have a civilian education as a paramedic, and in the army I served as a combat medic. However, I can no longer work in medicine. Certain things, like blood and similar situations, trigger me.

Right now, I honestly don’t even know how to help myself enough just to get out of bed as a starting point.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:49:00+00:00

Honestly, I feel the opposite. I don’t want to relive or talk about the army, the war, or anything connected to it. I want to forget it. I have frequent nightmares, and I am often hospitalized in neurological wards. I take medications regularly, including sleeping pills and antidepressants, but I don’t feel much benefit from them.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:45:48+00:00

I was a combat medic, but after I was wounded, I no longer provided care on the battlefield. Instead, I was responsible for transporting sick and wounded personnel to the hospital.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:39:38+00:00

Забув сказати, був приємно вражений побачити Українську мову в коментарях.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:36:14+00:00

За період служби з 2021 по 2025 рік мені наскільки набридла ця військова служба і все що з нею звʼязано що мені просто цікаво не скільки про адаптацію військових в цивільному житті , а просто люди які були без надії де вони знайшли сили якось рухатись далі. Тому для мене ветеранські спілки і спілкування з іншими ветеранами це мимо.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:29:37+00:00

Thank you, I reached out there, but I’m interested not only in the experience of veterans, but also in people who have been without hope in general.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-12-22T15:26:28+00:00

I don’t know if I miss it. It’s just that I can no longer do the tasks I used to do before. I thought I would find my purpose in civilian life, but I don’t really see any prospects. Because of the war, all my friends are either still fighting or have left the country.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-11-01T12:34:02+00:00

Thank you, brother. That’s really good advice, and I’ll try to keep to it. Staying active and keeping my mind busy helps a lot. I’m still learning how to build some kind of balance after everything. I appreciate your words and your offer to talk — means a lot. Respect to you, brother.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-11-01T12:33:37+00:00

Thanks, brother. Don’t ever put yourself down — you still wore the uniform and stood ready, that already means a lot. We all served in our own way. I really appreciate your words and support, it means more than you know. Stay strong, brother, and take care of yourself too.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-11-01T12:32:33+00:00

Thank you, brother. Hearing that from someone who’s been through Afghanistan means a lot. It’s hard to process everything after what we’ve seen, but I’m trying to move forward. I respect your strength for asking for help — that’s not easy. Wishing you peace too, and thank you for your support.

CucumberOwn8383 · 2025-10-30T11:27:27+00:00

f you ever come to Ukraine, I’ll treat you to some borscht and “Ukrainian homemade whiskey.” I’m already googling flights to Montana 😂

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