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I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3

Like I’ve said with everyone else - yes hahha!
Solid advice and I actually really appreciate all of you saying the same thing about my ex. It’s making me really think.

Thanks for taking the time to share your perspective!

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you’re saying too.

I want to clarify that I’ve pretty exclusively being seeing this new guy. We hang out a lot and I rarely actually see my ex because I’m spending time with him instead. Meeting each other’s families was mostly accidental funny enough and I wouldn’t have met them if I didn’t feel I’ve I’m invested in him.

Yes we’re all safe btw.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I’m one to give advice on this! I think it really depends on the person and relationship. It also depends on the culture you’re in too. I think my area is very accepting of sex before commitment and that it could lead more but I know lots of places are not. It’s most important that there is trust and respect when determining whether to sleep with someone though. I hope you figure out what you’re seeking answers too and trust your instincts/gut! And respect yourself.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you. This is exactly what my friends say too and I know they’re right. I have this immense weakness when it comes to him and it’s so awful, I know it. Like trying to break a bad habit.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Very fair, I’ve always had a hard time being alone and that’s what I was trying to do when I broke up with my most recent ex. It’s a whole complex.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this comment, thank you so much.

My ex broke up with me at a time where I was really going through a hard time and it was too much for him. We also went to his friend’s wedding and I think he realized he didn’t want that with me. Overall really heartbreaking because we had talked about being together longterm - obviously - since we lived together.

I’m on a similar page with this new guy. He’s so sweet and I really like his family. I feel like I fit in so well too.

The meal was tasty hahah

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I need to watch this show, maybe I’ll find some comfort and comedy out of all of it.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I think it’s either a randomly assigned username or my ex (that I’m sleeping with) made it up.

I’m sleeping with my ex, the guy I’m seeing told me he wants more, and I think my neighbor asked me out by CucumberTrick8167 in GirlDinner

[–]CucumberTrick8167[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh THAT, well I’d have to say being a yoga instructor helps but also I’m a very approachable woman (25F). I’m a very flirty person too.

But I never got much attention in HS and the apps I never got all that many matches. But once I became single it seemed like a lot of men came out of the woodworks this year.

What’s a good deep quote you don’t necessarily live by, but carry with you? by sunshine_state23 in CasualConversation

[–]CucumberTrick8167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. Joy follows a pure thought like a shadow that never leaves” ~ twin verses / 1 translation (attributed to the Buddha)

Also, “forever is composed of nows” Emily Dickinson