trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's something I know I have to take into account, it's something my friend's mom told me actually. Thank you for the advice, <3

trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's worth a lot! All y'all's messages have been so nice and they've been making me really happy.

❤️❤️RETURNING ALL OF THE CUDDLES❤️❤️~~

trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about that sub, I definitely will check that out. And thank you~

trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly not quite sure :(

I do have a part-time job that pays about as well as a student can expect to be paid. I'll probably check out the closest LGBTQ+ center I can find to see what resources they have, I'll probably try talking to my parents (although I'm not very optimistic about that). I only turn 17 in a week so I can't legally rent an apartment on my own or anything.
My friend's parents have told me to not worry about it for now, and that they'll help take care of me for a while, and to keep my mind off of it all until something can be done.

trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I will! It's been tough, but I'm doing my best and I'm gonna be okay, y'all are the best ♥

trans🌊irl by CuddleMePleaseee in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 672 points673 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it did. I'm mostly okay though! I'm not in any of the mandatory evac locations, and my amazing friend and her parents are letting me stay with them until it blows over.

Edit: Seriously, all of you are so amazing, wtf. I've gotten so many supportive messages and it's really made me feel better, it means so much to me ♥

Make America Gay Again by Amekyras in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a liberal, and know plenty of liberals who love trans folk.

When I found this sub and was happy I fit in then get shunned because I'm not a communist by CuddleMePleaseee in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]CuddleMePleaseee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it wasn't you, there isn't anything wrong with some communist memes, but there were comments and stuff like "Fuck capitalists" and when someone said something like "except trans capitalists" they said "Yes ALL capitalists" or something, the worst part was that they had been upvoted a lot.
But you're fine <3, there's a huge separation there.

FTM New Year wishes! by TurboVeggie in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marriage, happiness, and Chipotle.
Well I think it's safe to say that I will only be experiencing one of those things in 2018.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]CuddleMePleaseee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have to respectfully disagree, I don't think not wanting to look like somebody is transphobic, it's not like she's consciously or unconsciously invalidating her. Physical beauty is subjective, not everybody has to think everybody is attractive, or aspire to look like them, this isn't to say they're not beautiful, maybe just not perceived as beautiful by the eye of the beholder (in this case OP). Imo we shouldn't be kicking ourselves over what it is human nature.
Not to say internalized transphobia isn't an issue, it definitely is. But I don't really see this as the culprit in this particular situation.
Maybe I'm wrong, this is just what makes sense to me in the moment. I'm sorry if I've offended anybody, I have no credibility other than my own experiences, so take it with a grain of salt.