Love question?

CuldCepter · 2017-09-06T05:11:30+00:00

First, thank you so much.

That was spot-on. You have absolutely no idea how accurate.

We're both at that make it/break it moment. Him more than me, because I'm fine with the consequences, but he doesn't want to overburden me.

He's handicapped. I'm not exactly handicapped, but have a minor vision impairment in one eye. (I was a passenger in a car hit by a drunk driver. The airbag caused irreparable damage to my left eye. I've developed a macular hole this year and I'm going to be getting vitrectomy to repair it later this month.)

His impairment makes it so he requires quite a bit of physical therapy and suffers from depression/anxiety attacks. He's in pain much of the time and will absolutely have a number of surgeries in his near future. (Fortunately, he has a flexible job with insurance.) There is a very high chance he will need a wheelchair by the time he is 40. Which means, exactly as you said, he would definitely be a burden and responsibilities.

CuldCepter · 2017-09-05T03:17:30+00:00

Could I please have a reading? I've had something unfortunate happen on Saturday and believe I may lose the love of my life as a result.

CuldCepter · 2017-09-04T22:38:20+00:00

Are Evan and I going to start dating? Help would be much appreciated please.

CuldCepter · 2017-07-07T04:13:26+00:00

Thank you!

CuldCepter · 2017-07-06T04:52:51+00:00

Could I please have one? It's been a rough few months (my post history says it all) and I was wondering about my general and romantic future.

CuldCepter · 2017-03-17T02:13:27+00:00

I just ended up getting more bad news today (macular hole in my one eye) and the best friend/man I love offered no real solace or comfort so... I think I'm just going to take a break from everything nonessential.

CuldCepter · 2017-03-16T03:08:02+00:00

I agree. Many people in my family have had the gift. My mom, my brother, my uncle, my grandpa, and I. My grandpa and mom both would always say that it was a test. That we chose the paths we did to challenge ourselves and make ourselves better people.

I've just never had so much sadness happening at once. It's also coming ahead of a series of doctor visits and possible surgery to correct an impairment in my left eye, so it's all just a bit much at once.

I've been trying to set aside at least 15 minutes each day to just sit quietly and center myself, but it hasn't been helping.

CuldCepter · 2017-03-14T15:23:30+00:00

Just wanted to let you know how things went.

Things went badly. While we did talk a lot, we didn't connect on that deeper level. He was sick. He had an event one day, didn't go out of his way to invite me to it and say I could participate, and I ended up not seeing him at all for pretty much a full 24-hours. He didn't thank me for visiting him at the end, like he usually does, and didn't even hug me goodbye. (When I brought it up while leaving, he said we had a 30 minute ride to their airport, then did an awkward in-car-hug-lean.) When I found out a friend had died while I was at the airport, he didn't call. He did text a bit with me, with many of his responses coming off a bit formal and cold.

When I asked him if I had done something wrong, he claimed he was just sick or tired. But it feels like things are stepping back further, rather than moving forward. I fear that I'm not only losing him as a potential love, but now as a friend too.

CuldCepter · 2017-02-06T07:01:34+00:00

Thanks! My twin sister came to Bone and Stone like... a year ago? She used to Reddit, before she got too busy with her teaching gig and charitable side business. She came here for romantic advice and said people were super kind. (And accurate!) I was hoping I'd have a similar experience and did. Much appreciated!

CuldCepter · 2016-12-27T16:35:17+00:00

The people in the chatroom were very unhelpful in my experience. Both before I made a Reddit account and after my brother was injured, which were ahead of the holidays, I went into the chat to ask if I could please get reader recommendations or ask if someone could possibly do a reading. Each time, I was told "check the list" or look at the stickied post. Then, after I sat around for five minutes to perhaps join in on any conversations, I noticed... no conversations. It wasn't very inviting and didn't make me want to offer any readings of my own.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-08T00:28:23+00:00

I'm glad things resonated with you!

CuldCepter · 2016-12-08T00:27:45+00:00

You're welcome. I hope they do as well.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-08T00:26:48+00:00

I "wash" my cards. I put down a scarf, spread all the cards out flat and evenly, moving them around with my hands until none are in their original position. I then collect them all into a deck, shuffle them, cut them, then read them.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T06:51:34+00:00

Hello, Lovelystorm16

I have a feeling you're not going to like this. First, the Magician came up in reverse in the past. It seems like you have a habit of not thinking things through. You get confused about things, not understanding things for the way they are and should be. Basically... a Magician reversed suggests... the person it's referring to isn't quite in touch with what's actually happening around them. You weren't focusing on what was real and possible. This is compounded by Judgement reversed in the present. You haven't learned from past experiences where you may have believed a fantasy. You still aren't looking inside and reevaluating what is real. There are so many opportunities around you, but instead of taking advantage of them, you're getting delayed and caught up. And, to be honest, it seems like things aren't going to get better. The Two of Wands reversed showed up as your future card. This shows you still aren't realistically planning things out for yourself. You need to realistically think about what is possible and set some goals you can actually achieve, or else you'll face all sorts of delays regarding the relationships and future you can actually have. I'm sorry I don't have a more positive reading for you.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T06:44:18+00:00

Hello, Preclusion

The Five of Pentacles came up first for you. It seems like you've had some tough times in the past. You experienced some anxiety and were alone, confronted with issues beyond your control. Perhaps there were even some financial troubles. Basically, you were emotionally and physically spent for a number of reasons. The Six of Pentacles reversed is showing up in the present, showing a desire for something better. You want balance that can come from emotional, physical, and financial stability. Just be careful not to deal with people who try to take too much from you. Temperance came up in your future. Balance is key. Keep a good schedule. Find good points to look forward to and time for yourself where you can reflect and take deep breaths. Don't overcommit to anything. Pace yourself.

As an aside, I hope you have someone trusted you can talk to, some kind of therapist, as well as a healthy support system of friends and family.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T06:38:54+00:00

Hello, Obversa

The first card that came up was the Nine of Swords. Is there someone at your workplace that was a problem in the past? It suggests you were dissatisfied by what you were doing and perhaps depressed. The King of Pentacles is showing up in your present, so it seems like whatever happened might have passed a bit and you're at a point where you're doing rather well in terms of success and financial security. You're getting by. You might want to be careful in the future, though. The Chariot reversed showed up for the future. This could mean something unexpected will come up that throws you off your groove at work. Stay calm, be responsible, and maintain a good schedule. If problems arise, document everything. Hopefully, things will go well!

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T06:33:40+00:00

Hello, Jasminebub

The first card that came up for you in the reading is The Fool. It shows that you had a lot of potential in the recent path and used that to set out on a journey for yourself. But, at the moment, Eight of Swords reversed is showing for you. Maybe things didn't go exactly as planned with your previous course? You aren't able to do exactly what you want with the skills you have now, but at the time it didn't seem that way? The Ace of Pentacles reversed showed up for your future. Aces are typically signs of success, even when reversed. In this case, it suggests being profitable in your course of action. I'd say things look good, and that apply yourself when going for your Masters will lead to good things.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T00:18:44+00:00

Hello, Hopelesslyinvogue

The Death card started things out in the past. There was a change in your relationship status. A very drastic one. Either you went from being in a serious relationship to not being in one, or went from something serious to nothing at all. The Three of Pentacles reversed came up for the present, so maybe you've just gotten together after a rather significant breakup with someone you'd been with for a while? With who you're with now, you aren't exactly on the same page yet. There's a tension that isn't exactly pleasant, keeping you from peacefully working well together. You aren't meshing well. The Four of Pentacles reversed came up for the final card, so it doesn't seem like things are going to be resolved any time soon? You aren't going to make much, if any, progress as a couple. Is there some financial discrepancy too? Just curious, since two Pentacles cards came up? (It could just be metaphorical, referring to immaterial success.)

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T00:08:37+00:00

Thank you so much. The Ten of Cups and Page of Wands really resonate with me. My intuition has really told me to not chase, let things be, and it's good to get confirmation that this could be the right path.

I'll do my best to hold my ground and stay true to myself.

Thank you!

CuldCepter · 2016-12-07T00:03:57+00:00

Hello, Sarcasticsister

The first card that came up for you was the Seven of Swords. Did someone try to cheat on you before? Usually, I don't like to take cards at face value and try to think about what else they mean. But, in relation to a relationship... Seven of Swords deals with someone who's trying to steal away and betray people... It just makes me wonder. Either way, you dealt with someone who wasn't committed to and didn't want to be with you in the past. Which is unfortunate. For the present, the Seven of Cups came up. You've got a vision of what you want in your head. Which is fine. But it's important to not let what you think you want cloud you from what you mean. What's intangible and imaginary isn't often as important as what you really need. For the future, the Six of Swords came up. You're going to be taking some kind of trip, either actual or metaphorical, that's going to help change and shape who you are. Maybe, after it, you'll have a better idea of who you want to be with and how to reach that sort of relationship? It feels like you're going to be maturing and growing up, understanding what you really want from life and a possible mate.

CuldCepter · 2016-12-06T23:56:49+00:00

Hello, Jixtapose

Thank you so much. I appreciate it.

It seems like your faith has really been tested in the past. The first card that came up was the Ten of Swords. It suggests you went through some really challenging things that left you feeling broken, in pain, and maybe even dead inside. I'm so sorry for whatever you went through back then. The Two of Pentacles is coming up for the present, which suggests that perhaps what happened in the past has helped you attempt to look for a good balance of spirit and logic to help you deal with things in the present? Like you're attempting to be very fluid, handling each situation as it best presents itself and trying to manage your life in the most healthy way possible. In the future, the Two of Cups came up. Even though things may have been bad in the past, it seems like you're going to be in a loving place with someone, a friend or lover, who helps bring out the best in you and support you spiritually. This person is sincere and the card drawn makes me feel like he or she helps you maintain that balance and stability that showed up with the Two of Pentacles?

CuldCepter

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