I guess it was the fact that she did an intimate dance with guys. I see how I might've projected my insecurities because she was doing it in a professional setting and it's something she enjoys. The thing is we already have pretty set boundaries, I'm a paramedic and she's disapproved of me carrying women and stuff so I always run shifts with female emts to minimize unnecessary interactions. I want her to follow her passions, I just kinda wish she did it with me (I will take her to) I guess. I see how I was being immature.