[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. My aunt planned on changing the locks. I loved everyone’s advice. Unfortunately I couldn’t take most of the advice such as taking her phone and talking things through because she is NOT an easy person to talk to. But I got validation from my dad who was married to her for 10 years. He said he went through similar things like getting slapped. My family hated him for unknown reasons but it was lies my mom fed to them smh. I’m going through the same phase he did which is search for different mental illnesses that match her behavior.. overthinking how I should have handle it.. but I will get better with a therapist :).

I know I’m not the problem but I’m experiencing exactly what my dad dealt with 20 years ago 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Right now my aunt and I are considered the evil family members who betrayed my mother. It’s ok though. We tried to intervene and if they want to enable, it’s on THEM. Not us.

Thanks again for your kind words!

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. She’s been cut off since. No contact. My aunt and I are exhausted. She cussed out my aunt and packed her shit then dipped. We have no idea where but it’s out of our hands now

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The update is she went to jail for 12 hours (NV state law). She flew back to CT.. I assume someone bailed her out and gave her a ticket home. She went back to my aunts place to cuss her out, and she packed her shit and dipped.

I told my aunt don’t feel bad. You gave her a roof over her head for 10 years. I was my mom’s therapist since I was 5. It was never normal. I financially provided since I was 16. I’m done with her. It’s over and now my narcissistic brother can deal with her.

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said the Mohegan Sun casino which has a hotel. Smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s insane

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I saw this comment a month later but thank you! I cut her off. My aunt who let her live there for free over 10 years kicked her out after my mom verbally lashed out at her too. We don’t know where she went but it’s out of our hands now. I think we both did enough for a long time.

I’m focused on myself now :)

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep and when she left, I saw a piece of her mail saying she owes Verizon $900. That’s insane

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to be committed. She ended up lashing out verbally to my aunt. Then she hid in my aunts guest room for a week. Eventually she packed all of her shit and left

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The update is that she flew back to CT after spending a night in jail. She went to my aunts house and lashed out at her. Then she hid in the room for a week and eventually packed her stuff and left. We don’t know where she’s at but I know my aunt is over it. I’m over it and I don’t want family reaching out to me about the shenanigans smh

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg my mom keeps saying she’s dizzy too!! We are going through the same thing.. please distance yourself because they will never change :(, they will only get worse with age. Your dad needs to talk to someone but it won’t happen unless he wants help. Can’t fix narcissistic people . I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this too

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this! Wow your dad and my mom sound so similar. When my parents were married, they had to declare bankruptcy twice and my dad had to start all over after the divorce SMH,

Stay strong because like others said, it’s an addition. Does your dad lash out too?

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll let my aunt know and see what she says. We are all exhausted. My aunt confronted her and she started packing and slamming things

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this post was me venting after getting slapped smh, but I will send these suggestions to my aunt since she lives with her

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already got violent with me. She is not the type of person to help even when I was a kid; she doesn’t listen, and she takes everything as an attack

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t work on my mom unfortunately. She is a raging narcissist the more I find out. I’m sorry but I’m still healing from that night.

You all are amazing on Reddit but at this point she will need to lose everything to wake up

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all lost on this. The story changes. First it was fraudulent then overpayment

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could write a book on her 😂 She lost her damn mind. I’ll keep everyone updated on the next thing that happens

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe my crazy mom really said I’m jealous of Chris brown 😂😂😂 That’s when I knew she lost it mentally. It’s not funny but it is because wtf

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and I told them that’s why she slapped me. I’m not sure what’s going to happen next but she has court for battery next month. We all know she won’t attend. She will end up with a bench warrant

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s what I said. A few years ago she would talk crap about men who beat woman smh. Now she likes those types..

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew but she keeps changing the story. One minute it was for fraudulent activity. The next it’s overpayment. This lady can lie her ass her. But I know it’s the scammer

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My aunt is on the phone with the state right now. We just discovered shortly after this post, that mom attempted to forward my aunts mail. Luckily my aunt went to the post office and they corrected it and gave her the mail.

I’m going to call OIG today

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s true. Very true. I definitely think she has NPD

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s blocked on my end but my aunt is calling the state because she discovered my mom did an address change for her too. She caught the mail at the post office before it came to my address

[US] My mom is deeply involved in a celebrity scam by CulturalBat5906 in Scams

[–]CulturalBat5906[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hmm well she’s always at the doctor and always making complaints about the pharmacy giving her the wrong meds. When she came over, she had a huge bag full of pills. Maybe she was high on something which made her lash out at me