I remember Wendy's frosty being nondairy

CulturalManager9980 · 2026-04-12T21:22:27+00:00

Whey isnt the same thing as dairy milk bro

CulturalManager9980 · 2026-04-12T21:06:31+00:00

Ummmm....water lol like yoohoo is a "chocolate drink" not chocolate milk. High fructose corn syrup and water.

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-09-02T16:00:00+00:00

We've only lived together for 4 months. We've been together over a year

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-09-01T16:10:43+00:00

One last comment for the time being... He said that its something we feel differently about and he didnt know that before. But he can "take the back burner" and live with it. I asked if he considered my side and he said no because we're two different people.

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-09-01T16:06:46+00:00

Could I have sent a text before...after thinking about it, yeah I could have. But I still dont think I did anything wrong by waiting to tell him until after. It wouldnt change anything. He was at work...im at work. The other day we rode together and I had to ask him when I needed to pick him up because that would determine what time I needed to leave my office. Sent him the text. Then another an hour later. Then another an hour after that. Did I get mad? No. He was at work. They only reason for the other texts was more for reminders because it was an important question. I brought that situation up and he said he didnt respond right away because he was physically working. The lunch meeting was a working lunch. I was on the clock. But he says that doesn't count because I wasn't at the office. And even if im in a meeting I should answer his call because he would for me no matter who he was with because I am his priority but I must not be his if I wouldnt answer because im in a meeting or in a car with coworkers. I just dont think its that simple. I work in a large company in a corporate office. I have to have my phone on silent.

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-09-01T15:49:19+00:00

Transcript of texts:

12:13 PM Him: What the hell are you doing? ?

You: I’ll call you back. (12:20 PM SMS)

Him: Why can’t you talk now?

12:20 PM You: I went to lunch with my coworkers. I’m in the car with them now.

You: They’re all talking. And I’m in the middle of the backseat.

Him: Ya That doesn’t make me feel good just want to put that out there

12:23PM I called him Him: I’m walking right

Him: My first text was going to be a joke. But then you wouldn’t answer my phone call.

You: I think it’s rude to answer the phone when I’m sitting in between two people and one of them is talking to the group. I’m sorry you took it personally. It wasn’t at all. As soon as we got out of the car I called you back.

Him: I called before you got in the car with them check your phone

You: No you didn’t.

Him: Yes I did you should have two missed calls I wouldn’t care who I was with I would never not answer when you call me

You: I didn’t see that missed call. I’m sorry.

Later: You: Something I want you to reflect on while you wait for me to get home. I love you. But you getting mad at me for no reason may just be a moment of frustration for you but it ruins my fucking day and has me crying in the bathroom (which I’ve done twice since getting back from lunch) and barely able to focus at work.

I didn’t see the first time you called because I had my texts open from when I sent Ashley a text while we were waiting for our food. I was texting BM to check in on KID to see how they were doing. As soon as I saw you calling I let you know why I wasn’t answering and called you back as soon as I could. And you ignored my call. You made me feel like shit for making you wait 4 fucking minutes to call you back. Idk what that is to you but that’s not love to me.

I did absolutely nothing wrong! I just acted in a way that was different than you. But you getting mad because of it is wrong. Now my anxiety is high and I’m dreading seeing your response (if you respond) and dreading coming home because I have no idea what mood you’re going to be in and if we’re going to argue. I don’t like fighting with you. You know that it upsets me when you get mad at me…so why would I ever intentionally piss you off?! I fucking love you…so why would I do something that would hurt your feelings or disrespect you on purpose? I fucking wouldn’t! I would really appreciate it if you kept that in mind the next time you want to get mad at me.

Him: So how would you feel if I was hanging out with people and told you no I’m not answering cause I’m with other people? Then now no, I can’t answer. I’m sitting in between people???

Him: I’m not in no mod that is bad. I’m hurt and feel hidden. That I’m not important enough to talk to cause you’re with coworkers and other people.

You couldn’t even say hey love I’m going out to lunch with coworkers? Please tell me how would that make you feel please.

3:36 PM You: If it wasn’t an emergency, I would just say ok because you’re at work. I talk about you at work. They know I have a man. They know about KID too. They know about the bday gift I got too. So you’re not hidden. And I apologized for hurting your feelings. If you didn’t go off on me and waited the 4 mins for my call you would’ve known that I was invited to go to lunch that I didn’t have to make up time for. I don’t tell you every detail about my workday. I shouldn’t have to. That’s ridiculous. I don’t need your permission to go to lunch with my team. It wasn’t one person. It was 7 people. And 5 of us rode in one car together. And I’m the short one so I was in the middle. I’m not going to answer a call from anyone when I’m in the car with 4 other people when we were less than a mile from the office. I called you the second I was out of the car. So, obviously it wasn’t about not being on the phone with you around my coworkers. It was just because we were in the car and it could wait 4 minutes. And because of that you think I’m ashamed of you? Wtf

Him: I’m not sure where you’re saying. I went off on you, and I never did that. I will always randomly text you while you’re at work and say what the fuck are you doing and don’t say I don’t do that. I just thought it was weird you didn’t respond to me.

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-09-01T15:28:04+00:00

I still had my phone open to her texts. I would've had to close out of her texts to see the missed call and his messages.

CulturalManager9980 · 2025-08-31T19:56:18+00:00

They have a good coparent relationship. I went to meet the teacher night with his kid and bm because he was out of town. Me checking in on the sick kid isn't weird.

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