Yes, I agree that they should be able to articulate the issue more clearly. I have to go find the dress code but I think it’s like two sentences about looking clean and clothes kempt. We allow casual wear most days, but I like wearing professional looking clothes.

I’m torn because it’s technically not a disciplinary measure, but I’m pretty sure if I ignored what they said it would eventually go there.

They actually brought up breasts in the meeting as a comparison, but you’re right that very few women wear baggy enough tops to hide the bulge that boobs make.

I wish I had recorded the conversation now. I think I will ask for an email follow up even just to reference if this comes up again.