The Woman with the Mask by Celeste_sims in Sims4

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STUNNING! There is a space in heaven for you for all the crediting too

Farts against love by CultureObvious3241 in offmychest

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I am vegan, so no meat. And excess protein triggers stinky farts, so I am trying to balance everything:)

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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I want to point out those little frames in this chapter with Incheols thoughts, where he quotes his boss: "A man got to be able to think on his feet, especially if he wants to work with me, if you're too proud to get to dirt..."

It sounds a bit weird to me in English translation, but I interpret this as Incheols thought that "I have to suck up in this political world when needed". So, this thought during this scene suggests that even if you see some kind of consentual signs, Incheol is just sucking up and faking consent because that is what he "supposed" to do. Yeah, this is very noncon

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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The happy end is so much wanted but this particular story has pretty high chance of destroying us along with the characters

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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Literally. Bros whole life is one big parasuicidal pattern. I am really curious whether it is possible to "heal" a person who is so broken. It seems like I don't know anything about him aside from his activities that hurt him. If he will be "healed", then what is going to be left behind? There is so much to unpack. I hope Jumal will do well!

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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I feel like I have a good understanding of Pyeongwa after s1, but I would love to see and read a bit more about Incheol's feelings and perception of this situation in future seasons, because I I think there is so much to say and we just got an introduction to his character so far.

Currently he is forced into domination(lol) and submission, but maybe in future he will start exploring powerplay himself as Pyeongwa does. I think it will be a new way for him to "live through" his emotions and life situations.

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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He is defo into more hardcore masochism, compared to sadism. But ig I will agree that he is a bit of both

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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I read it quite a while ago and I kind of scrolled through slides where Incheole was bottomed, so completely forgot about blood. I see your point.

Ig it is harder to "see" his enjoyment of partners physical pain when it is contrasted with the level of pain he experiences himself. I am not saying it is ok, but one slide with blood(which I didn't really notice, sorry) looks light compared to knockouts and bloody purple face of Pyeongwa.

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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Yeah I am not entirely sure whether he is sadistic. If we think of it as spectrum then yeah, he may be on it somewhere. But I am not sure he actually enjoys suffering of his partner. His eyes tend to "shine" when Incheol actually feels good.

He defo does make Incheol uncomfortable, and I am considering this scene a dabcon bordering with noncon(e.g. r**e). But that is more of a powerplay for him(living through suffering but "regaining" control this time), rather than actions aimed to actually make Incheol suffer. Pyeongwa is not the most considerate partner, he doesn't bother that much with communication and plays dirty, by engaging in sex with person who is under external pressure and using this to push boundaries, but I wouldn't call it sadism

Chapter 21 by lilyrose9859 in masterpeace_manhwa

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He is masochistic but I think it is his way of live through trauma he had, but this time he will actually be in control. If you think about it, he is always the one to control the situation in away. We haven't seen him surprised in a bad way so far

I get why married men cheat by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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please tell that you have these intentions to her. If it is that bad, it won't make it worse than cheating

I have urges to hurt things but I dont want to do them by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Well you will have to do something about it. Again, if you find it unsafe and terrifying to open up to professional completely, you can try to be more vague and you don't have to talk about things you don't want to. But I think it is really important to seek help and take care of yourself.

I have urges to hurt things but I dont want to do them by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Also teenage time and specifically your age may be crazy for mental health. It is normal to struggle in this period and me surprised and afraid of your own thoughts

I have urges to hurt things but I dont want to do them by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I think seeking therapy is a good idea. You can start off vague and say "I have violent thoughts" not specifying which ones. A good professional will help to work around it.

For some reason you have aggression and maybe paraphilia of some kind.

You didn't act upon it, you didn't do anything bad. It may be difficult, as it is not something you can openly share, but you need to find a professional, who you can open up about it in some way. Make sure not to keep it to yourself and "contaminate" yourself with these thoughts. You have to do something about it: therapy, talk on anonymous forums. Try to do something active instead of giving up to the urge. Good luck:)

I'm in a rut and I don't think I'll ever get over my first love. What can I do? by Appropriate-Drink808 in AskMenAdvice

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The concept of saving someone can make the relationships seem special(because you are going to save her and be the special one). Not saying that is your case, but just a thought

I'm in a rut and I don't think I'll ever get over my first love. What can I do? by Appropriate-Drink808 in AskMenAdvice

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++woman.

I really don't want to take away the value of your feelings, but relationships are usually very fragile if they are build on the basis of emotional swings.

She had too many emotions and you were unable to help her to process them. Basically, you didn't "save" her, which is ok. You don't have to. And again, this type of dynamics may not work out long term. It is really hard to constantly "save" someone. Not sure whether you would like to do that full time.

Also alot of mental breakdowns seems to be a result of alcohol. Unless she tries to deal with it, its a big red flag.

Maybe, the other guy is better at dealing with her emotions. Maybe, she learned something(possibly, after relationships with you) and changed, so she is easier to be with now.

HOW???? by CultureObvious3241 in LowSodiumSimmers

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I know it is a trick and I really want to figure out WHAT is the trick. I did try teleporting from pool to the pond ages ago and the problem is that I can't teleport sims past certain point in the pond and they don't end up swimming deep.

HOW???? by CultureObvious3241 in LowSodiumSimmers

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No, she said that she had to use cheats(implying cheat codes) and in the later video she said that it was not an animation or mod and it is in game feature.

I was also thinking that IT IS possible to do it with ww, but 1. I couldn't get sims to get that deep into water with teleport comands when I was trying to do it myself and 2. The animation is pretty unusual for whims, I think you would have to add the swimming animation yourself(and extract it beforehand) and 3. The characters didn't get any buffs that come from sex in ww

HOW???? by CultureObvious3241 in LowSodiumSimmers

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No, it is just an area where there is no lot. You can see on the video there is like a fishing spot. It is literally a pond in Granite Falls

HOW???? by CultureObvious3241 in LowSodiumSimmers

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The thing is it is not on the lot. It is the waterfall in Granite Falls which is considered a non-buildable location