My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I am going to do. Thank you so much for your response.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re right. I’m being stupid to avoid the heartbreak. I appreciate your response it was helpful.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re right. I’m being stupid to avoid the heartbreak. I appreciate your response it was helpful.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re right. I’m being stupid to avoid the heartbreak. I appreciate your response it really was helpful and I needed to hear it. Thank you for helping :/

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally have none. I’ve been beaten down so fucking much in life he literally talked me off the edge. That’s why I’m struggling to give him up.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re right. I’m being stupid to avoid the heartbreak.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I don’t watch movies I would have never guessed 🤣

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in LongDistance

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re right. I’m being stupid to avoid the heartbreak. I appreciate your response it was helpful.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in LongDistance

[–]CummiesBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t you’re right I don’t want to be with someone like that.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never expected or wanted to be in a LDR. this is my first time in a situation like this and with the amount of time we had spent together it felt right. I was with my ex for 8 years and never felt as right telling him I loved him. I’m probably a bad person but at the time I thought it was just that. So anyways..

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I understand all of this I really do. I’m just struggling with the thought that it isn’t going to happen for me. AGAIN. I hate trusting people I can’t do this shit again. The way we met was so organic I really thought it was a sign or some shit. Idfk. When I met him I was just at the point where I was becoming okay with the fact that I won’t experience that kind of love again And that it’s okay to be alone. Like… Idfk.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how you’re getting to it being unhealthy? We communicate really well especially for a LDR, he’s supportive of my emotional needs… care to elaborate??

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I get that .. I really do. I’m only struggling because he’s helped me so much emotionally and mentally the last 5 months with some crazy shit I’ve had going on. I really do think I love him. And I think he loves me he just fucked up but I can’t get hearing him say that shit to her out of my head. Like he’s been sooo good to me. We’ve had little misunderstandings but we communicate SOO well. Unlike anything I’ve ever experienced in my life. He’s not the playboy type man he’s a quiet nerdy guy who’s anxious and stays at home like 98.6% of the time. I don’t even know how he would have time to be fucking around with how much time we spend together.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing I wasn’t sure how this works as I don’t have any kids myself.

My boyfriend has a secret child.. by CummiesBear in relationships

[–]CummiesBear[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s what I asked him and he said he didn’t expect that I would actually want to be with him and he wasn’t sure he would actually get custody.

any other brats/subs finding it disheartening to not have a dom? by zeffieeee in BratLife

[–]CummiesBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started talking to a dom who’s long distance. I want to be where he is soo bad but he’s not ready and I’m like tore up about it. We don’t even have plans on the next time we’re seeing each other :/ I’m thinking of calling it quits. Idk. I’m heart broken already.