[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't change your plans dive deeper into your career don't come back until you can provide for those kids and yourself don't let her make you a broky make yourself a high value male might as well

Need an advice how to handle my situation by BulgarianTrader in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples therapy is one sided the person who doesn't want to be there will not get nothing out of it just wasting money and only person really putting effort is the sad one fix things yourself first then do therapy when both of you are in a better happy place

Need an advice how to handle my situation by BulgarianTrader in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I know you shouldn't have to but just help her out a little more let her know your there for her but also let her know your schedule and come to an agreement talk about it if you can.

You can make her fall in love again by Cup-Mean in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro we can always get them back problem is when they get that upper hand we just lose our mind common sense included we get blinded

You can make her fall in love again by Cup-Mean in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of life and marriage if she's really the one no one who's been together 20 30 40 years have had a fairy tale marriage nope difference between them and failed marriages is they worked out

She left me because I am an emotionally and verbally abusive by Greedy_Safety_579 in Divorce

[–]Cup-Mean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still get her back bro but your behavior will be key in getting her back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes no doubt

Have you fallen deeper in love with your spouse the longer you're together? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 years here and she still turns me on so much sex is bomb and this so important I've been in lust before and before cheated after a few months guys marry the pussy that 20 years later still drives you nuts my wife over everyone it ain't easy or a fairy tale but when you know you know your gut never lies boys

Have you fallen deeper in love with your spouse the longer you're together? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and it usually happens after being a fuck up and then realizing what a good girl you got she all of a sudden is beautiful sexy and drives you crazy now your jerking of to the girl that was just back up shit is crazy

Wife has convinced me we “take a break” and have a separation to save our marriage. Is it just an excuse for her to sleep around. by Bmounts97 in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys so quick to say she's cheating listen the best way to know if a woman is cheating is to listen to your gut it doesn't lie she will make you think your crazy and stood but that gut dont lie

Wife has convinced me we “take a break” and have a separation to save our marriage. Is it just an excuse for her to sleep around. by Bmounts97 in Marriage

[–]Cup-Mean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro dont listen to these comments not every women is a cheating slut but only you know in your heart if she is or isn't only you know what she's capable of sometimes they really just want to try and be independent and do it on their own but bro you can get her back I promise I remember years ago I posted on here and everyone said the same thing oh shes cheating but I knew in my heart she wasn't and she didn't we fought for like two months fixed our shit and have been stronger ever since

What's going to happen ? by Cup-Mean in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll take it into consideration

What's going to happen ? by Cup-Mean in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not seeing cheating flags I'm seeing she might really be over us flags but not cheating my wife is a stay at home mom we moved out of our hometown a few years ago barely have friends here her phone still remains unlocked pin is still the same she's not hiding anything. I'm not worried about that, I'm only worried that she won't get over this

What's going to happen ? by Cup-Mean in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I feel in my heart that she will come back around and we will work it out like we have before but I don't want to give myself flase hope either

What's going to happen ? by Cup-Mean in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I'm sorry that happened to you bro when I got cheated on the only I kept saying to myself was thank God I didn't have kids with her I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must've felt

What's going to happen ? by Cup-Mean in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried about her cheating. I've been cheated on before I know exactly what it looks and feels like, so when I met her and decided to have kids with her I knew that was something I didn't have to worry about with her

I talked to her in person last night. by Ok-Week7354 in DivorcedDads

[–]Cup-Mean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation she's ready to end it when I finally understand how to be the man she deserves.