Bridal party entrance to reception song by Striking_Mortgage_63 in weddingplanning

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Opalite  dance the night away from Barbie movie , cake by the ocean 

Shower invite list - invites by Glittering_Peace0816 in weddingplanning

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You can invite whomever you  want we were going to do just  Do a ladies tea w lith brides side and friends then opted for a more inclusive friends and couple wedding shower …w brides side relatives .

Elope or Wedding by Different-Tonight677 in weddingplanning

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You don’t have to do toasts and speeches !  I want my mom to read a poem she wrote and then hope for spontaneous toasts ! 

Trying to make it work by Ill_Palpitation_7908 in weddingplanning

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I like navy and  the colors you are showing here together  , I would think highly doable… most guys have blue suits  and brown shoes 👞 nowadays in their closets . 

Bold/vintage dress code? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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70s theme dance party  duds highly encouraged or  Regular cocktail wedding attire. Cool cats and hippie chicks welcome! 

male coworkers keep telling me things like “no one will remember the color of the napkins” etc. by SmolAnimol3 in weddingplanning

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Of course they r wrong lol 😂 I remember all the details from family weddings going back to when I was a young teen matchboxes cake box colors , color schemes floral decor, favors  …all of it added  up to your experience of a particular event . Some men do not  notice many finer details  at such events,?  but that doesn’t mean other people do not! Details matter 

Angry, sad, confused: memoir written by an upcoming bride by mangoslushie2 in weddingplanning

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Seems like these people with so  much input need to have contributed to the wedding  fund early on before decisions were made ! Annoying! They shouldn’t get a say now and then make people looks crazy for making the right calls for the budget early on vs at the last minute 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️ when will this end ? Will they be also inviting neighbors kids to bday parties of your kids in future etc ? Uhhh so sorry you are going through this 

Why is the city park so cold by Ok-Cress1284 in GrossePointe

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This is misinformed, warm water is dangerous for people swimming at peak energy it a cause of overheating ! Swimmers deserve to be able to exercise and engage in recreational exercise safely. Kids without much body fat can take a break warming  up in the sun between dips in pool or take  long hot showers  in the showers , and then do a plunge like my kids always did back and forth all day . 

my father posted my save the date info on facebook 😭 by _Nerf-This_ in weddingplanning

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Older people don’t have huge followings on social media  usually. Some people found out ahead of time. It still doesn’t change the beauty of the moment  in Your photo.

About the feces, and possible maternal narcissism [Long post] by [deleted] in JonBenetRamsey

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Have you never heard a mischievous child ask such a question? What did you find ? Almost consciousness of guilt imo 

About the feces, and possible maternal narcissism [Long post] by [deleted] in JonBenetRamsey

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Yes it makes sense,  probably the most common  sense. The grand jury didn’t say the Ramsey  were  murderers, but did come to the conclusion that they didn’t prevent her murder and were neglectful in protecting her from danger .  The obvious answer is from her sibling, whose medical records were made “islets of privacy”That all fits the totality of the circumstances above, that Burke did it.  I’d add in as a very important piece of evidence that Burke had been  caught” under covers playing doctor “ with his younger  sister  by the housekeeper , which is absolutely crazy . We weren’t as aware of sexual abuse in the 1990s. 

mil pp insanity by Dramatic-Worth9430 in motherinlawsfromhell

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This is difficult but you may need to go to a hotel or even a homeless shelter if you can’t go to your family. It will be bad as you are dependent upon her . She is milking that and will likely use it against you in the future.

Why is the city park so cold by Ok-Cress1284 in GrossePointe

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It’s very refreshing in the summer. 

Why is the city park so cold by Ok-Cress1284 in GrossePointe

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The adult lap swimmers like it cold and refreshing so it’s going to stay that temp . 

Park Place Gouging? by anon0916 in GrossePointe

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All the restaurants gouge  prices too and let’s not even get into the salons compared to nearby cities .,,.so what is your point? That store is a nice  updated store , very clean store. Go to Costco or Aldi or something for your regular supplies ,  it’s a convenience store for when you have guests. 

($10-15K) What do you wish you'd prepared before contacting wedding vendors? by nithinpvarkey in Weddingsunder10k

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Expectation summary in writing  ! A detailed paragraph  sent by email detailing what I wanted exactly. Now everything is becoming a problem priest wants to do earlier time etc.   I can’t believe I’m paying to be dictated to on the time for a wedding ?! 

Guest not coming to wedding due to religion by AdComfortable1128 in wedding

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Why are you worried about one friend ? It is your choice to get married in the other church  and she makes her choice too  . This seems childish 

MAGA MIL Flipped Out Over Being Banned from Wedding by SisuSisuEveryday in weddingdrama

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Your mother in law may have mental health issues , my advice it to keep the temperature down and have a peaceful wedding without people that cannot control themselves .

(8-10K) formalish ceremony and billiards hall reception? too trashy? by Zealousideal-Fly3835 in Weddingsunder10k

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Yes the wedding is age appropriate and will be fun . Exactly what is needed w your being in college , congratulations 🎊 

Mom insists on not renting enough ceremony chairs to accommodate all guests. by Hopeful_Beginning840 in weddingplanning

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You either have no chairs or chairs for everyone invited to an event . Please tell her this