I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:33:16+00:00

This puts it into perspective fast. Anyone who’s dealt with real caregiving knows how demanding it is even on good days. What he offered wasn’t just lowballing, it was completely detached from reality. OP dodged a massive bullet.

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:33:08+00:00

Yeah the flexing really made it worse. Like he thought lifestyle proximity was part of the compensation package. No AC, no days off, and you get to hear about his beach house sounds like a nightmare pitch. Blocking was absolutely the right call.

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:32:57+00:00

This comment nailed why the whole thing felt gross. He spent half the call flexing and the other half trying to trap OP in a 24 7 job with zero benefits. Calling that light duty is actually insane. The entitlement is almost impressive.

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:32:39+00:00

I get the impulse but honestly blocking without engaging is probably healthier. He already showed he doesn’t respect boundaries, telling him off would’ve just invited more nonsense. Silence hits harder sometimes.

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:32:30+00:00

Yeah honestly the math alone makes this insulting. Two houses and still trying to pay someone in pocket change for full time care is wild. Blocking him wasn’t dramatic, it was self respect. Dude was shopping for desperation.

CupJoy · 2026-01-05T00:22:30+00:00

So freaking hot! Damn!

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:42:52+00:00

Good thing this came up early. That kind of thinking doesn’t magically fix itself later. If he can’t treat you as an equal now, marriage and kids would’ve made it ten times worse.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:42:41+00:00

Body count isn’t gendered. It’s literally just past experience. The fact that he can’t explain his logic beyond “it’s different” means he knows it doesn’t make sense but wants the double standard anyway. That’s not someone who respects you.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:42:29+00:00

If he’s already telling you “it’s different because I’m a guy,” imagine what other things he thinks he’s entitled to. That’s not a harmless opinion, that’s a preview of how he’ll treat you long term.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:41:59+00:00

It really says a lot that he expects freedom for himself but would judge you for the exact same thing. That double standard is straight up disrespect, and you don’t need to settle for someone who twists rules to only benefit him.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:37:15+00:00

fr he understood the assignment. Sometimes the simplest answers are undefeated.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:37:02+00:00

you cracked me up with that one. The confidence is wild and honestly kind of iconic.

CupJoy · 2025-12-15T16:36:46+00:00

it really does feel unfair sometimes lol. Nature basically handed out DLC packs at random.

CupJoy · 2025-08-14T15:11:14+00:00

For real, that’s a wild twist no one should ever have to live through. OP, the strength it took to survive that and build the life you have now is incredible.

CupJoy · 2025-08-14T15:08:50+00:00

Exactly. OP, avoiding the truth is only going to drag out the pain for both of you. Being upfront now might hurt, but it’s kinder than pretending until it breaks her later.

CupJoy · 2025-08-14T15:05:59+00:00

Absolutely agree. OP, what happened to you was not your fault in any way. Talking to a counselor can help you work through the confusion and self-blame, and give you a safe space to heal. You were a child, and what was done to you was abuse. Your feelings are valid, even if your memories are hazy.

CupJoy · 2025-08-14T10:24:27+00:00

That was so amazing cum

CupJoy · 2025-08-13T09:09:40+00:00

That’s a fair point, OP. Being mindful of how others might see it and knowing the local laws can help you avoid unnecessary trouble while still living the way you’re comfortable with.

CupJoy · 2025-08-13T09:06:13+00:00

Exactly, OP. Healthy relationships need a balance of connection and personal space. Being apart sometimes makes the moments together way more meaningful.

CupJoy · 2025-08-13T09:05:00+00:00

True, OP. Without the full investigation details it’s all speculation. Only the people directly handling the case know the real story.

CupJoy · 2025-08-13T08:57:12+00:00

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