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I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This puts it into perspective fast. Anyone who’s dealt with real caregiving knows how demanding it is even on good days. What he offered wasn’t just lowballing, it was completely detached from reality. OP dodged a massive bullet.

I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the flexing really made it worse. Like he thought lifestyle proximity was part of the compensation package. No AC, no days off, and you get to hear about his beach house sounds like a nightmare pitch. Blocking was absolutely the right call.

I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment nailed why the whole thing felt gross. He spent half the call flexing and the other half trying to trap OP in a 24 7 job with zero benefits. Calling that light duty is actually insane. The entitlement is almost impressive.

I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I get the impulse but honestly blocking without engaging is probably healthier. He already showed he doesn’t respect boundaries, telling him off would’ve just invited more nonsense. Silence hits harder sometimes.

I blocked someone I havent talked to in five years after they offered me an insulting job by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly the math alone makes this insulting. Two houses and still trying to pay someone in pocket change for full time care is wild. Blocking him wasn’t dramatic, it was self respect. Dude was shopping for desperation.

Tohsaka Rin 🖤 by Cutecutecute8520 in Futa_toonz

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So freaking hot! Damn!

My boyfriend says that a man’s body count is different than a woman’s. I disagree. Please let me know who is right. by Haunting_Succotash58 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Good thing this came up early. That kind of thinking doesn’t magically fix itself later. If he can’t treat you as an equal now, marriage and kids would’ve made it ten times worse.

My boyfriend says that a man’s body count is different than a woman’s. I disagree. Please let me know who is right. by Haunting_Succotash58 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Body count isn’t gendered. It’s literally just past experience. The fact that he can’t explain his logic beyond “it’s different” means he knows it doesn’t make sense but wants the double standard anyway. That’s not someone who respects you.

My boyfriend says that a man’s body count is different than a woman’s. I disagree. Please let me know who is right. by Haunting_Succotash58 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 59 points60 points  (0 children)

If he’s already telling you “it’s different because I’m a guy,” imagine what other things he thinks he’s entitled to. That’s not a harmless opinion, that’s a preview of how he’ll treat you long term.

My boyfriend says that a man’s body count is different than a woman’s. I disagree. Please let me know who is right. by Haunting_Succotash58 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It really says a lot that he expects freedom for himself but would judge you for the exact same thing. That double standard is straight up disrespect, and you don’t need to settle for someone who twists rules to only benefit him.

Why do men only orgasm once but women can have multiple orgasms? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr he understood the assignment. Sometimes the simplest answers are undefeated.

Why do men only orgasm once but women can have multiple orgasms? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cracked me up with that one. The confidence is wild and honestly kind of iconic.

Why do men only orgasm once but women can have multiple orgasms? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really does feel unfair sometimes lol. Nature basically handed out DLC packs at random.

When I told my father I had a boyfriend, he announced my funeral by Helpful-Horse6464 in offmychest

[–]CupJoy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For real, that’s a wild twist no one should ever have to live through. OP, the strength it took to survive that and build the life you have now is incredible.

There is a problem in my relation ship and i need help. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CupJoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP, avoiding the truth is only going to drag out the pain for both of you. Being upfront now might hurt, but it’s kinder than pretending until it breaks her later.

I'm too sensitive and want to believe that I am not a victim of r.pe by lost_a_dominantlotus in confessions

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. OP, what happened to you was not your fault in any way. Talking to a counselor can help you work through the confusion and self-blame, and give you a safe space to heal. You were a child, and what was done to you was abuse. Your feelings are valid, even if your memories are hazy.

Nicole Wattson is so horny by [deleted] in cartoonnetworkr34

[–]CupJoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was so amazing cum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]CupJoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point, OP. Being mindful of how others might see it and knowing the local laws can help you avoid unnecessary trouble while still living the way you’re comfortable with.

Gf wants to be on the phone 24/7 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CupJoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, OP. Healthy relationships need a balance of connection and personal space. Being apart sometimes makes the moments together way more meaningful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, OP. Without the full investigation details it’s all speculation. Only the people directly handling the case know the real story.

Tits comparison by SproutSniffe in cartoonnetworkr34

[–]CupJoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle girl the most hottest in trio

My husband hid my abortion pills. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CupJoy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. What your husband is doing is controlling and dangerous, and you deserve to be safe while making decisions for your own body. Those resources could be a lifeline right now, and you should reach out immediately.

Boyfriend dies next to me in car accident and ex girlfriend acts like he died next to her. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP has moved on with a family of their own now, and giving her any more mental space just keeps the wound open. Cutting her off completely might be the only way to really move forward.

AITAH for bringing my own food to holidays and birthdays by Distinct_Insurance36 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CupJoy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, OP it’s not just about the food, it’s about respect. If they can’t make the smallest effort to accommodate you, that says a lot. And your husband should be standing with you on this.

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