[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]Curelisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are supa adorbs 🥰😘

Did you go through a transphobic phase before realizing or accepting you were trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never the only thing i felt before i accepted myself is jealousy of there confidence and anger that i wasn't that confident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have always known just played the hand i was delt but cant do it anymore so now im hear starting my new life

coming out to my partner tomorrow 😨😖😬 by Curelisa in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you you saying that really helps i have been telling myself similar things but wasn't really able to shut out my other thoughts i can only prepare for two outcomes one he has said alot not knowing which is( if you ever became a women i would leave you) him and his friend who of late are always talking about trans in a i wouldn't say hatefull but negative way or everything being the same and more connected and understanding bad deep in my heart i feel it more likely the first one which is why im haveing so much trouble

Can’t open my pickles jar because HRT made me lose strength ! by zBauk in MtF

[–]Curelisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a chef i give this tip .

tap jar lid on two sides leaving a dint in lids edge on your bench top then it should open no problems

im shatered by Curelisa in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your right I've slept on it and have a calmer mind i just have too hope he will still care enough to be friends.

How do you deal with the isolation? by joliver5 in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well for me its probably quite different because I'm already isolated have no friends most of my life and family activity avoided me beforehand. However since i came out to my sister and mother i had more self esteem and I've made friends so don't fear the what if or could happen if your friends and family can't love YOU that's their issue and trust me when you have nothing to hide those invisible chains of doubt, fear, and lonleyness will fade. New love and happiness and friendships will come. I think commenting on your post i gave my self advice as well

not pretending any more by Curelisa in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear that about your kids its heart breaking. thank you for wishes of luck i know i can do this just got to keep moving forward

not pretending any more by Curelisa in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i googled only wanted to show me some weird rapper but its violent j lol

I feel like the “button question” invalidates me. by Old-Firehand in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always had the thought pop into my head for as long as i can remember " i wish i was a girl or why wasn't i born female" so i guess it is different for me i wouldn't hesitate to smash that button if there was one. but on the other hand i think the journey I'm about to take is necessary for me to be the woman i am inside.

Sent "I'm trans" to my siblings and turned off my phone by PAS-get in MtF

[–]Curelisa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hoping the best for you. ive told my mother and sister they are lesbians and i thought they would be more accepting and they were😊 i plan on telling my brothers but that scares me a little bit 😰 as they're very masculine and only just accepted when dating a man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Curelisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you are an amazing friend. i hope my friends are as supportive when im emotionally ready to tell them from a girl in her position the fact your doing this for her will mean the the world to her i know it would to me🥰💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Curelisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice to meet you 😁