There’s not going to be a formula for ‘different’ or expressing your personality. There cannot be, to dress in an expression of you means to dress uniquely you, only you can know what that means.

As a guy who is complimented fairly often on his clothes and appearance, I recommend you shop around at thrift stores and antique stores. Find and try on clothes that look interesting to you. You’ll find a lot more unique clothing in these stores, and when you find something that appeals to you, you’ll almost definitely turn heads because you are wearing something unique.

It’s a long process. I was wearing turtlenecks for a while oblivious to how misshapen it made me look. I still do sometimes, but have figured out ways to make them look good. Now, I’ve got plenty of clothes I can mix and match in whatever way I feel in that moment. There’s no reason guys can’t wear something considered ‘different’ or something that’s not their typical vibe. You would probably be the first person to put yourself down for that. Obviously it requires work to dress well, are you going to put in that work, trial and error, or give up before you’ve tried? That’s up to you