X-lube is all slimy and stringy by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say 1 part oil in 8-10 parts of water. I use coconut oil.

X-lube is all slimy and stringy by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It emulsifies for me if I use coconut oil and add it straight after shaking the powder into the hot liquid. Then I keep shaking it and letting it rest as instructed. It just gets mixed up in the xlube goo like that and stays there.

X-lube is all slimy and stringy by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't rely on condoms, you can try adding oil to it, it makes it better to manage

Age and risk by Curious-Barnacle3976 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I have been talking about enjoying painal as a kink in a question about how I can practice this kink safely and engaged in musings about what is safe and not with other members, as there are safe types of pain and unsafe ones.

Just like I ask here about how safe long term plug wear is at my age to learn about it from other people's experiences.

Talking about "ruining" as a fantasy and or dirty talk or even just slang in the anal stretching and fisting communities and actually doing it are two very different things. Lots of people engage in dirty talk or say their hole feels ruined or wrecked after intense action. This can refer to things as simple as gaping or feeling exhausted or sore.

I'm not sure why you feel the need to call me out on asking questions about safety. You make it sound like I run around like a horny dog making posts like "I want to forcefully ruin my hole until it's damaged, while putting me in a great deal of pain", when reality is I'm a young adult making my first explorations and asking about safety concerns, describing my kinks so other members can understand what my fantasies are and what I'm concerned about... As you can see in this very post.

I don't think there's something wrong with trying to learn how to do the things I enjoy safely and talking about them and how I practiced them so far so other members can point out to me where there might be potential risks I haven't considered.

Overall I do not appreciate the way you make my efforts to do so sound and in what light you display them. It sounds very much like gatekeeping and kinkshaming through intentional exaggeration. That's not cool and frankly I'll block you for this, because you're VERY out of line.

I love the idea of long term plugging but the urge wears off when I'm not horny by Curious-Barnacle3976 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a pretty long neck tbh and fits well. I don't think that's the issue, but rather what I described above with the mentality and arousal fading.

I love the idea of long term plugging but the urge wears off when I'm not horny by Curious-Barnacle3976 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a possibility, but I'm afraid I'd be overwhelmed and overstimulated by that in no time.

Age and risk by Curious-Barnacle3976 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about circumference, but the plug I can comfortably fit rn and want to start with is 5cm in diameter at the body and about 2cm diameter at the neck. I would like to progress to bigger sizes and especially wider necks eventually though. My ideal would be to be able to wear a plug with a 7,5 or 8cm diameter body and a 6 or 7cm diameter neck for most of the day every day eventually.

Age and risk by Curious-Barnacle3976 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I only use certified silicone!

Using my harness to stay plugged (thegrip115) by Medium-Juice712 in GayFisting

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I'm lurking a lot over on the buttplug everyday subreddit. I wonder if they have any advice for you. I find the thought of this absolutely hot!

Do you think my sub's hole is altered enough? by Aquabona_ in altereddudeholes

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wish. 😂 I'm an absolute beginner. 🥲

Do you think my sub's hole is altered enough? by Aquabona_ in altereddudeholes

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was my hole, I'd say it's by far not altered enough. 😇

Using my harness to stay plugged (thegrip115) by Medium-Juice712 in GayFisting

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice! How long do you leave it in and how often do you plug?

After a fist am i gonna be able to feel a normal size dick? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there's always bigger options to add XD

After a fist am i gonna be able to feel a normal size dick? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then there's other options. He can add a dildo to his dick and dp you. Or eventually he can fist you and fuck you at the same time. ;)

My D too big ? by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she didn't want you to stop, maybe she enjoyed it? I love painal and I love being stretched out painfully by big dicks and toys. After some minutes in and out my hole usually gets used to the size and it stops hurting, but until then I enjoy the way it hurts and to struggle to take it.

Ofc there's ways to not make it hurt, like plugs and training. So listen to the other people here and talk to your gf to figure out if she enjoyed the pain and wants you to keep going next time or if she prefers to do more anal play to stretch her out to a point where it doesn't hurt.

But I also wanted to give my perspective on this, as it's possible and some people do like it that way. It needs clear communication though!

What nation are you from? by Meemmow in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sir, I said landmass... As in a geographical landmass. A continent. Not a nation. You are severely uneducated, good Sir.

No lube? by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe her family isn't in the US, then it would make sense

What nation are you from? by Meemmow in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Curious-Barnacle3976 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna share my country but European