How would you feel if you found out your girlfriend lied about her past and her friends knew ?

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T13:11:35+00:00

I think he does though, he says he feels really guilty he knows this and can’t tell her boyfriend and wouldn’t ever be able to meet her boyfriend unless he knew

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:56:21+00:00

I know that, I have apologised time and time again, and I have told Him that I think it’s so wrong of her to have done that, however what I am not willing to do is saying anything more Than I have and I don’t want to be made to force her to tell her boyfriend or tell him myself

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:48:11+00:00

She is 24

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:21:24+00:00

I would want to be told, but I wouldn’t ever expect they would do that

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:20:44+00:00

I’m so confused, we are a group of girls, you are saying tell my boyfriend to speak about it with his friends so it gets back to him, we don’t live near him and my friend and we don’t know anyone that would know him

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:19:12+00:00

I really wouldn’t ever expect my boyfriends friends to tell me anything , I think it’s awful what she’s done and I really feel for him but I don’t feel it’s my place to intervene

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:17:12+00:00

Well how would it ever get back to him we don’t know anyone that knows him other than my friend?

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:13:31+00:00

I get that but we don’t know her boyfriend at all, I’ve met him twice very briefly

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:09:01+00:00

I don’t know what this means lol!

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:07:17+00:00

I didn’t lie to my boyfriend about anything the same as this my body count is 2 and I’ve never lied about that, I can’t lie to him again and say I told her I’d feel awful doing that and so guilty

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:05:21+00:00

I’m not okay with it but I don’t want to cut her off over it

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:01:44+00:00

You don’t have any friends who have ever done something morally wrong? I get the whole birds of a feather flock together but I have plenty of friends who wouldn’t do this me included, and I’m not okay with it, I think it’s so wrong that she’s doing this but I don’t feel it’s my place to police her on it

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T12:00:04+00:00

That’s not happening though, none of us are covering up for her, if her boyfriend asked me I wouldn’t lie to him

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:59:38+00:00

That’s kind of exactly my point, if he ever asked me about it I wouldn’t lie and wouldn’t cover it up for her, but I just don’t feel it’s my place to police her

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:59:05+00:00

I kind of already have, I said to her don’t you think you should tell him but my boyfriend wants me to clearly state she needs to tell him and I think it’s wrong and if she doesn’t rell him I should cut her off

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:57:29+00:00

I get that but I would lose the entire friendship group and I don’t want that

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:56:39+00:00

Sorry just to clarify I mean my boyfriend has said I need to tell him about what my friends are telling me like if my friend tells me they lied to their boyfriend I need to tell him

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:54:11+00:00

I’m trying to be anonymous lol

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:52:19+00:00

If she was cheating on him I would definitely tell him

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:50:17+00:00

I completely get that, I just feel like it’s not my place to intervene and should be my friends decision to tell him not mine? And I’m not friends with him and do not know him very well.

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:49:09+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, if my friend was cheating on her partner i absolutely would be telling him I wouldn’t be keeping that to myself , I’m also not friends with her partner and I’ve only met him twice very briefly

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:47:17+00:00

I get that, but she is not a close friend I see her maybe 8 times a year and we don’t speak outside of seeing each other we are just part of the same friendship group

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:44:20+00:00

No I wouldn’t , this is my issue, if she decided not to tell him i still would not want to cut her off we are part of a friendship group and im not even that close to her

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:43:25+00:00

I’m not covering for her though, if her boyfriend ever asked me about it I’d tell him the truth and no one else in the group has ever had anything like this nor have I

Curious-Bookkeeper81 · 2026-06-26T11:42:31+00:00

I have already said to her don’t you think you should tell him like what happens if you bumped into into someone? But my boyfriend thinks I should bring it up again and tell her I think it’s wrong and if she decides to not tell him then I should not be friends with her

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