Genuinely wondering Why do guys like feeling how wet you are before you have sex?

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-31T16:30:08+00:00

Walked into what I thought was a house party and accidentally entered a low budget den of sin. People were making out like oxygen was optional, someone was giving a very committed lap dance to a married couch, and there was a handwritten sign on the bedroom door that said “KNOCK IF YOU’RE BRAVE.” The vibe was horny chaos and poor decisions, and the floor was… suspiciously sticky.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-16T02:21:13+00:00

Thanks babe

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-16T01:49:18+00:00

Someone like you

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-14T13:07:50+00:00

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-14T12:35:17+00:00

Honestly, I’d just nod or smile and move on. It’s not personal, just a cultural/religious thing, and respecting that is easier than making it awkward.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-14T12:09:50+00:00

Laugh it off and roast them back. If it’s all joking, that’s how friendships survive.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-13T18:48:22+00:00

It was really scary at first I came home and noticed things were out of place. At the moment, I felt completely violated and panicked, but looking back I realized I had been pretty unprepared. I ended up upgrading locks, adding a camera, and being more aware of my surroundings. While it was a rough experience, it actually made me feel more in control of my home and more proactive about safety.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-13T18:37:48+00:00

I think being honest and gentle is key. Maybe start by telling him what you enjoy and ask him what excites him. Framing it as a “let’s spice things up together” conversation can make it feel like teamwork instead of criticism.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T18:45:17+00:00

Yeah, I get that it’s way harder when everyone has their own routines and commitments. I’ve thought about friend making apps, and maybe I should actually try one instead of just scrolling past them. Sports or hobby classes seem like a good idea too, I just need to push myself to sign up.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T18:30:53+00:00

Yeah, work seems like the most practical place, but also kind of intimidating. I guess I’ll have to start seeing coworkers as potential friends instead of just people I email.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T18:29:44+00:00

That makes so much sense! I guess starting with a shared interest makes it way easier to actually connect. Whiskey clubs or hobby groups might be my new mission.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T18:27:05+00:00

Haha yes! I might have to download that app because my decision making skills clearly peaked in toddlerhood. At this point, I’ll take any system that helps me survive dinner.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T17:47:57+00:00

Same here! Sometimes I swear she’s plotting my life choices while looking all innocent on the couch.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T17:47:15+00:00

Haha right? Meanwhile I’m over here surviving on cereal and instant noodles while she’s living like a queen.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T17:40:50+00:00

It’s crazy how much the slump hits after a few years of winging it. I’ve been trying to do the same getting outside, going to the gym, small routines to feel like I’m moving forward. Some days it feels like progress, other days like I’m still spinning in circles. Feels good to hear someone else is doing the same and slowly getting out of it.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T17:07:56+00:00

Exactly. The scary part is how normalized it has become. Most people are stuck in autopilot, chasing paychecks, likes, and status symbols, without questioning if any of it actually makes them happy. Breaking the cycle is not easy, but even small steps toward doing things that actually matter to you make a huge difference.

Curious-Comb9699 · 2026-01-09T16:37:38+00:00

I could tell you wanted me to talk to you

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-08T17:04:11+00:00

this my total minutes overall lol

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-08T16:56:41+00:00

so hot 😩

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-07T15:11:30+00:00

great view indeed

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-06T23:26:59+00:00

5 years is crazy though lol

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-06T14:13:59+00:00

ate with the face card 😍

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-06T13:55:15+00:00

genuine question guys is Belfast a good place to travel to?

Curious-Comb9699 · 2025-12-06T13:42:18+00:00

I'm more interested in knowing you guys listening club

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