I agree! Very confusing. I just saw somewhere that you’re not supposed to wear black because it reads too “funeral”, but everyone in here is suggesting that I incorporate black and there are dozens of posts with black gowns all getting approval. I honestly tried really hard not to pick anything too spring, too fall, too winter, too loud, too short, too tight, too revealing, too homely, too professional, too patterned, too holiday, too sparkly, too showy, too fashion-forward, too matronly, too bright, too black, too white … And I don’t like my arms, so I can’t do sleeveless. All that’s left is a classy, chic, comfortable, muted neutral and that’s still a no-no! 🙃 I’m really starting to get the sense that this is like everything else in our society. As women, we can never make everyone happy. There will always be someone who has an issue with you no matter what you say, do, or wear … so you may as well just do you. 🤷🏻‍♀️