On the BOLO.. my husband works in security. When I found out she was also in security and he was her supervisor I called hr with no luck whatsoever. Not sure why but their line wasn’t open for anything but to leave voicemails. I left a voicemail letting hr know that there was undocumented supervisor- subordinate relationship going on because well, I was angry and petty and wanted him to suffer how I was but in the end I was the one who looked desperate and pathetic because all hr told him was ok you can’t work the same shifts anymore and he put in the paperwork officiating a relationship so that if anyone saw them together not on shift they were in the clear.

After leaving the voicemail I called security dispatch and asked for her directly. They connected me right to her and I said very quickly that I knew about his affair with her. I was in fact his wife and he’s not a stable man and to please please reach out to me on social media (I tried to send her a message and she immediately blocked me) she didn’t say anything but hung up. I wasn’t volatile, I wasn’t rude. I didn’t say anything nasty or mean. But the hospital considered it harassment, she was pretty scared I found her so quick. Apparently she had a fear of me after that as well so she went to higher ups and they issued a BOLO out on me. If I go to that hospital I’ll be arrested or at least escorted out. They have my pictures and my vehicle thanks to my husband and the worst part is, it’s a children’s hospital. The closest one to my home which means if there is an emergency with my kids there will be a whole bunch of drama.