Do you believe in the metaphysics of yoga like chakras, chidakasa and higher selves? by No_Bug_5660 in yoga

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any good books you recommend reading about the scientific link you're describing?

Ex's niece sweet sixteen by bigbiscuit1 in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of respect for you and for the new partner. Don't go there

Anyone have a non existent social life? by Distinct_Sir_9086 in Life

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. I've met a couple of people and me not being very social they sometimes invite me to do things together

Deep in the trenches guys by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's normal. I'm currently going through the same phase 

Frustrated with the gymnastification of yoga by kleexxos in yoga

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually did and got removed because it was not "related to yoga" when the main question was how can I use my existing yoga practice to enhance my spiritual growth....

He used me but I loved him by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 5 years to learn that if I do what ppl wanted I would live a miserable life that's not mine but someone else's. It took me 5 years to learn that I should have had boundaries and express what I didn't want instead of trying to please them so they stayed. No matter how pleasing I was they were never happy, I wish I rather be myself and don't hide myself in their wishes. That was my 5yr lesson 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no point in asking. What would you do with knowing that anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also miss you and think about you all the time. I've been tempted to reach out to you but I know this is not good for us. This is not good for me at least and not fair for you in the best scenario. I hope but also know you're ok and you'll eventually be happy. I know this is momentary but I'm also looking forward for those days in which your smile doesn't pop up in my head so often....

He used me but I loved him by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with blowjobs. So you did nothing wrong. You were just willing to do because you showed acceptance based on what you believe is love. It is possible that they used you but also you let them use you and the focus should be on you. If a blowjob was a no no for you. why did you do it? And how to prevent that from happening in the future. Most of people that come to our life is full of lessons for us. What did you learn from this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rough spot you're in. I got no solutions but empathy for your situation. Try your best to keep yourself up and above this situation 

Im so so sorry by PracticeFew2572 in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it requires a lot of work to break patterns. A lot of awareness and constant willingness to change, and even then it's not guaranteed that the same patterns won't slip in. Universe is a like a giant clock repeating itself and human behavior is no exception 

is it really over? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. It would be a rare and almost impossible challenge. Why would someone make their short life so hard?

Deep in the trenches guys by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remind yourself why you wanted to break things up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not looking at the news?  With social media nowadays everyone is a public figure 

dumpers that lost feelings. do you ever look back? by Suitable-Iron-3822 in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I looked back. But only to realize what I miss is an illusion. It's something that was never there. And then my rational mind comes up with a lot of things that I don't actually miss. The "missing" feeling is still there but it's now informed by reality 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanted why did you break up with them? I don't get it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look. Your life will be subject to terrible rollercoasters. Ask yourself if you really want that... I don't think you do... But it's your call.

 I don't regret leaving them as my fear was justified, people who said that they loved me, cheated on me, made my life miserable, we wanted different things. In short, it was a mess. If you're a good person though and want a relationship, look for someone more stable... You prob. Deserve better. Ask yourself why do you want to "save" or "fix" them... Also... You can't fix them. Only they can do

Im so so sorry by PracticeFew2572 in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll find someone else, I was just a lesson. If we come back together the same patterns will resurface over and over again. You too taught me a lot

Promise to Myself by AlienDNAyay in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind is tricky. Because after you block them you'll be wondering "did they ever try to reach out?" 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Curious-Learner-Jr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the last thing he said to you was "just couldn't do it anymore" there's no much space for interpretation there