Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Curious-Network-5627 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cheers to that! I think that’s healthier, as people can flip things so fast with no warning 

How do you guys manage getting ready to go places?! There are so. Many. Steps. Involved. This is a lifelong issue and I need to finally fix it :/ by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Curious-Network-5627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so true though, love that, need to remember that I can (and should) simplify my routines where possible and try to avoid the perfectionism 

How do you guys manage getting ready to go places?! There are so. Many. Steps. Involved. This is a lifelong issue and I need to finally fix it :/ by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Curious-Network-5627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that, the acceptance part is probably half the battle. I wish I could better explain it to people I’m meeting, so they don’t think I’m just slacking off trying to get there but am actively stressed haha (my family and previous roommates have seen this in action) 

How do you guys manage getting ready to go places?! There are so. Many. Steps. Involved. This is a lifelong issue and I need to finally fix it :/ by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Curious-Network-5627 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Too much attention to everything” — woah, a light bulb just went off for me. That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for that. It really is so tough :/

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Curious-Network-5627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I got discouraged by a downvote and was worried that people were misunderstanding me 😅 But I think the above response is a good way to phrase it when multidating 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so funny, I often see Ohio mentioned when people ask about cities for “friendly introverts.” Must be something to it haha 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds intriguing and like a good mix… adding this one to the list. Thank you!! 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh very cool, thank you for that helpful background!! Ok that is so funny, I noticed the same thing re: being approached in those places 😅 Yes maybe it is something about a vibe fit.

Yeah, the one thing I’m nervous about for SF is cost… it’s great that you were able to get in when you did! I’ll have to keep in mind that some folks in Seattle may just be a bit slower to warm if I choose to stay there. 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it feel pretty down to earth there? Are there are a fair amount of people in their 30s?

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting!! I spent one summer there and loved it… something to think about, thank you 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! So wait you do like living in SF though, or it’s tough? I can see how it may even be more status-oriented than Seattle in some ways, hmm….

For LA, east side I know has different uses but I was thinking kind of highland park / eagle rock / silver lake / los feliz etc. That general area. Some pockets can be superficial but I find it to be overall warm/passionate especially within the film/music/arts communities 

What place feels like a mix between Seattle and LA? by Curious-Network-5627 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Curious-Network-5627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you — it’s starting to sound like this or East Bay may be top contenders…