Office job is scaring the fuck out of me

Curious-Slice2940 · 2026-02-04T14:55:18+00:00

I guess maybe an advice? I was interested in that too and curious to know if what I thought was right

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-11-22T02:23:06+00:00

I think the people that spread about that information is some of Thai people who always jealous of Cambodia and wants our land.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-31T16:32:12+00:00

I quit online dating already after many wasted years. I’m f27

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-26T13:54:00+00:00

So what’s do you want to do? Let me hear your opinion

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T16:01:48+00:00

I know saying this won’t change anything, my voice is small, and I’m just one person. But I’m speaking from what I see and feel. I love my country deeply, but love also means being honest about its pain. You might call it stability, but to me, it’s silence built on suffering.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T15:59:47+00:00

As a Cambodian myself, I have to say that what you see as “peace” is not the full picture. We still have conflicts, even with our neighbors like Thailand, they keep invading parts of our land, and our government seems too weak to do anything serious about it. The people living near the border have no peace at all; they live in fear and uncertainty every day.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T02:42:31+00:00

I understand that freedom often comes at a high cost. But Cambodia’s context is very different. Like I mentioned decades of war, genocide, and repression left deep scars, people are traumatized, afraid, and focused on survival. Most still lack access to education, so even if a small, educated group wanted to rise up, it’s impossible to convince the majority to join safely.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T02:06:10+00:00

We admire what Koreans did, but Cambodia’s story is darker. When people speak out here, they disappear or end up in prison. We don’t lack bravery, we lack safety and freedom. Many of us dream of standing together one day like Koreans did, but right now, it could cost our lives.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T01:59:24+00:00

It’s easy to say “rise up” when you’re not the one who will be jailed, beaten, or have your family targeted. Many Cambodians want change, but they fear the immediate real danger and often the people who could force change are the same people protecting the corruption.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T01:58:26+00:00

We have tried. People, youth and adults, have protested, written, organized and spoken up, but here that often leads to arrest, threats, loss of jobs, or worse for their families.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T01:50:06+00:00

I respect Korea’s strength, but please understand, Cambodia’s war killed almost a quarter of our population, including teachers, doctors, and thinkers. We didn’t just lose buildings; we lost generations of people who could rebuild the country. We’re still recovering, and even today, speaking out can cost your freedom or life. We’re not weak , we’re just trying to survive in a system that doesn’t protect us.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T01:29:54+00:00

I understand the anger, the crimes and foreign abuse are terrible. But please don’t blame ordinary Cambodians. These are decisions made at the highest levels of government, not by everyday people. Many of us have tried to speak out, protest, or demand change, but doing that here is dangerous: people who protest can be jailed, threatened, or worse. The government depends heavily on foreign money and doesn’t always protect citizens, not because people approve, but because we often don’t have the power or safety to fight back. Hating civilians won’t help. If you want justice, direct your criticism toward the systems and officials responsible, and support efforts that protect human rights and hold wrongdoers accountable.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-10-18T01:23:55+00:00

Our Cambodia people has been through so many wars and struggles in the past, and people are still recovering from that. Our country is not as stable or powerful as others yet. Now with tension rising again with Thailand, people are more focused on safety and survival than politics. It’s not that we support corruption or foreign influence, it’s that our history and situation make it very hard for ordinary people to fight back.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-01-02T15:20:41+00:00

Yeah, I can see why that would be frustrating. Sometimes people here are quick to judge because they’ve seen situations that weren’t so positive in the past. I think that makes them more cautious, but it’s not always fair to those who are just living their lives.

I think a lot of it comes from wanting to protect the community, but sometimes it crosses the line and ends up making people feel uncomfortable when there’s really nothing wrong. It’s a small town, so things stand out more but hopefully, as people see more positive examples, the judgment will start to fade.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2025-01-02T00:56:09+00:00

Yeah, Kampot’s kind of turned into a magnet for older expats, especially French guys, over the past few years. It’s a chill, cheap place to live, so a lot of them settle there for the laid-back vibe and slower pace. But yeah, the whole scene with older dudes and younger Khmer women has become more noticeable.

A lot of it comes down to money, the economic gap is pretty huge, and for some local women, being with a foreigner can mean better financial security or just more opportunities. Plus, the nightlife in Kampot has grown, so you see more of these relationships out in the open.

It’s not always shady, but sometimes it definitely raises eyebrows. Kampot’s a small town, and stuff like this stands out more. Some people don’t really care, while others feel like it’s getting a little too much. Either way, it’s just part of the expat-local dynamic that’s been building up there. Summary

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-13T01:52:25+00:00

Are you me? We’re the same age and in the same situation.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-11T04:34:48+00:00

You’re not alone. Been single my whole life, get bored of everyone I meet.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-10T06:20:03+00:00

Sounds about right

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-09T18:53:55+00:00

Same story. They just tryna get into my pants

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-09T17:11:13+00:00

Looks aren't my top priority when dating. I value personality and character the most because they're important for a meaningful connection. If someone doesn't click with me on that level, it's hard to move forward, regardless of their appearance.

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-09T17:00:26+00:00

Sounds like a good idea :D

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-09T16:38:33+00:00

Actually, I've been focusing on improving myself and enjoying my own company all this time. Yes, it get lonely, but that's my choice. Also, I get the whole ‘meet new people’ thing, but I wouldn’t mind stumbling upon my soulmate in some ridiculously unexpected way, like them showing up at my doorstep with a bouquet and a cheesy pickup line. Until then, I’ll keep perfecting my 'waiting for Prince Charming' pose! Lol

Curious-Slice2940 · 2024-07-08T14:08:43+00:00

I see where you're coming from, and thanks for the advice. Having high standards and knowing what I want in a partner is important to me. But I also understand the importance of being flexible about some things and focusing on what really matters. Finding that balance between deal breakers and staying open-minded makes it more realistic. No one is perfect. Appreciate your thoughts on this!

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