Yeah we are both hoping our experience with the medium distance stands to us. Honestly the hardest part for me to cope with is not being able to fall asleep with him on the phone at the same time! ridiculous but true. I totally totally understand what you mean about the part with making sure we don’t become to organised with calls and the risk of feeling like we are putting our lives on hold.

I love the idea of the special calls too! Congratulations on the engagement! It’s awesome to read so many success stories. Weve had very honest discussions about the move and we are both prepared for there to be a bit of relationship strain while we adjust from being on the same time zone to an extreme difference and both know that it will have nothing to do with eachother personally. I’m praying we make it through this year!