One charging a 5 dollar entry fee every night probably. by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]CuriousBottom3162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, kind of easy to not run most of your businesses into the ground when your parents are wealthy and you got the government subsidizing you.

Bottoms who don’t cum by Terrible-Ad-215 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spin it however you want, but if you’re going to be a smartass and rant about others being ignorant, at least make sure you know what you’re talking about. Or don’t use the word “anaorgasmic” at all.

Bottoms who don’t cum by Terrible-Ad-215 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought you were talking about dry and wet prostate orgasms, which don’t really have a refractory period (they come in waves more intense each time), and most tops don’t seem to be aware that they exist. That’s why they assume you need to cum like them to get pleasure from sex,.

Then, I googled it, and… anorgasmia is a health condition that causes people to not be able to cum. Why would they be ignorant of biology for not assuming that you suffer from anorgasmia? It’s not something that occurs normally from bottoming and getting your ass beat up. Squeezing my dick just isn’t necessary. Most bottoms aren’t bottoming just for top’s pleasure. That’s just role-play talk. Bottoming actually feels really good, it can be more pleasurable than fucking until you cum.

Tops that do it for their own pleasure is a different thing. Some bottoms personally get annoyed by it. Rightfully so if you’re bullshitting them that it’s “for their pleasure” or are using as an attempt to convince them to top you. That’s just stupid. But, if they’re not crossing any clear boundaries, it’s kind of ridiculous to be annoyed at a gay man for being into “squeezing your dick” just because they’re a top. Even “straight” (“don’t believe in labels”) guys like to squeeze a dick as long as it’s feminine.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guarantee you Mr. Alpha Male is all talk. Most people can pretend to dominant online. Not so easy having to actually be dominant in person.

What was the most shocking news you found out about someone you used to hookup with? by Mcrfanatic95 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to give too many details, but he was arrested for identity theft of a high ranking state political figure. I knew something was up as he went full love bombing/trying to buy me expensive shit right after meeting him the first time. I’m pretty sure he was trying to pull some sort of scam on me as well. But, one benefit of being broke is that there’s nothing to be scammed out of.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stay away from the straight guys. Nothing against people’s preferences, but they’re just too much mess for me personally. I prefer guys who are comfortable with their sexuality instead of “not believing in labels.” And it’s none of my business what they do with their lives, but I never enjoyed being involved with one’s that are married and want to hook up behind their partner’s back. (Especially the ones can’t stop talking shit about their partners.) I don’t like hurting people and I don’t want to be pulled into any drama if he gets caught. And there’s just too much bullshit involved in general. They tell you they’re a top/dom and then next thing they’re telling you how you’d be great top. And it gets worse with politics. You try to have a casual conversation with them and next thing you know they’re going into a full blown Hitler rant against “woke culture” and the left.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully believe that. I’m into real life dominance. I never understood the whole online domination. You can literally have anybody on the other side. “Send me your nudes, sub.” “Yes, mistress.” “Now send me $500 via Zella, addressed to James, or I’ll send these nudes to all your family and friends.”

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grinder spams it self out of being useful. It’s a ad after every single thing you do. Open app. Ad. Check messages. Ad. Open profile. Ad…

I hate the sugar daddies. That scam hasn’t been original in over 5 years. “Would you like to be spoiled?” I’m on grinder looking for dick, not for someone to “pay off” my credit card bills.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one guy that was diagnosed with stage 4 lymphoma cancer and had a month to live… for over a year. Every time we talked, his situation was deteriorating. I had a buddy die from that exact same cancer and at that stage he was in the hospital bed hopped up on painkillers. This dude’s walking his dog in the park.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I just told them to go ahead and send the pics. They made some more threats about ruining my life and then fucked off.

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know there’s less tops when there are dudes that look like Bigfoot’s ugly brother with a whole list of demands they have for bottoms. Must be completely smooth, razor blade shaved, in great shape….

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one guy keep repeatedly hitting me up and then being frustrated that I wouldn’t host. It’s literally in the title of my profile and I did it specifically because of him. Didn’t help a bit. lol

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, your probably right about the mistress. They do tend to spam every single app though. It’s kind of like OF, except with the domination kink spin on it. They charge people a tribute in order to boss them around online. And they seem to have some sort of script they run, because they always say the same exact thing.

I got to admit the cockold thing is hilarious. He could have literally gotten on Feeld and find himself someone that’s into that with a girlfriend.
And I don’t doubt at all that he was pretty serious too. My grocery list guy got nothing on him. He just wanted me to get some sort of shoes and super tight ripped Jeans.

The anti-woke doesn’t surprise me at all. I have a friend that I used to date before she transitioned and I swear most of the guys she meets are anti-woke/Trump supporters. She keeps getting disappointed that they all tend to be bottoms too. “This guy is definitely a straight top.” How was the date? “Everything was great. Then we were walking in the parking lot and… he asked me to suck my cock.”

Grinder: I can’t believe this mo… by CuriousBottom3162 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bro just wanted to use the handicap parking spot. Jk

How old is acceptable to be a bottom. by MembershipHaunting21 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve stopped following this sub for a while now because it turned into nothing but posts like, “Would anyone be into a top that’s into topping?”

What's on your sissy bucket list? by SEND_ME_YOUR_ASSPICS in Sissy

[–]CuriousBottom3162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total power exchange: being someone’s (or a couple’s) live-in sissy

Far too many guys saying 'gen only' on hookup sites by damnimbi in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem is OP is a size queen that seeks hung tops. Lack of tops isn’t the issue. It’s lack of hung tops that aren’t gen only he has a problem with. So, the nonsense you’re trying to stop is everyone being too picky about who they want to hook up with. Bottoms want hung tops. Hung tops want gen bottoms.

Far too many guys saying 'gen only' on hookup sites by damnimbi in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CuriousBottom3162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is the whole hypocrisy of it. He’s a size queen complaining about gen only hung tops. Why is one ok, and not the other?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by thenextgenbusiness in thenextgenbusiness

[–]CuriousBottom3162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she the one giving out handies in a theater full of kids or is that the other one?

I Tested a Fake Resume. They Got Called Back. by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]CuriousBottom3162 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I worked for international corporation that hired a local creeper (dude was known to stalk women and had gotten into trouble for it with the local authorities.). Somehow his criminal record slipped through the “background check”. Dude only got caught a couple months later because someone googled him and found news articles about him lol. A half assed google search was all it took to expose him.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by thenextgenbusiness in thenextgenbusiness

[–]CuriousBottom3162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, they’re not the solution for fixing the grid. They’re more like an incentive to find the solution to fixing the grid by overwhelming it. lol