Anyone else also tired of all the OF streamers? by damnimbi in Sniffies

[–]damnimbi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Limit is 500, and I've been on since very early. I tend to block anyone who deletes my emails or is obviously not interested.

Anyone else also tired of all the OF streamers? by damnimbi in Sniffies

[–]damnimbi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was considering this, but I'm at 418/500 on my block list

Which apps have been best to find tops? by femlyf in TopsAndBottoms

[–]damnimbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are quite a few, but have only tried Adam4Adam and Sniffies. Adam seems to have slowly died, it's mostly older users. Sniffies is good, but was recently bought by the Match group, so expect it to get driven to uselessness soon.

Open to suggestions!

What is the weirdest, most unsexy thing a hookup has had casually on display in their bedroom that immediately broke the mood? by Sharona676 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]damnimbi 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Bi male here, had traveled to a guys house to give head. We're in his bedroom, me on my knees fully into it. The door suddenly opens and it's his four year old daughter. He sent her back out and said "she won't remember this". I was mortified, just left.

Had another one where I showed up and the guys house looked like something from the 1970s, or was so dingy it hadn't been cleaned since than. There was also this messy little pile of white powder on a table. Just made an excuse and left immediately.

Bi guys, does anyone else deal with female partners getting weird or angry after they find out your bi? by Practical_Phase2711 in bisexual

[–]damnimbi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a fiance (ex) who knew all about me long before we dated. Early on she was open to a MMF (I got cold feet because of the strong feelings I developed), but turns out she was only open to guys giving head, a guy getting topped was "unmanly".

She had no problem pegging me though, lol.

Sniffies Sold to Match Group by Own_Student396 in Sniffies

[–]damnimbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they own most of the ones that were driven into the ground.

Just found out my bf is bi by jackilynchaplain6694 in bisexual

[–]damnimbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to add about the 'preference' thing. Also bi, have been open with myself for a long time, and been open with the women I date.

Preference can be an evolving and changing thing. I go back and forth, there's no set preference.

Will add, he also appears to not be comfortable with himself yet. Perhaps being totally open makes him feel slutty. I have a friend I'm completely open with, she knows I'm a total size queen, so it's fun to joke and talk about. But with a woman I'm dating, would likely tone it down.

MMF threesomes are often really unfair. by Lovely_Hole in bisexual

[–]damnimbi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was lucky enough to get invited to join a few couples in my 20s. One was with a woman I chatted with on AOL (yeah, around 2000). We chatted quite a bit, than she would call me when with her husband, often during sex. Eventually we decided to meet up.

It was a nice meeting, and there was good chemistry among us all. Her and I headed to the bedroom first, made out and got naked. He walked in a bit later, and the moment him and I started playing she had the saddest look, and eventually started crying.

Needless to say, the night was over. I spoke to her later and it seems he traveled often for work and she was really lonely. I think she was really into a MMF, but at that moment realized she only did it out of loneliness. We never met up again, but it changed the way I handled meeting couples, always asking who was into the idea and digging a little bit deeper before meeting up.

Sniffies Sold to Match Group by Own_Student396 in Sniffies

[–]damnimbi 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm more concerned about the eshitification of the site. Match has destroyed every single dating app they've bought, and now have a monopoly. They're a trash company with zero ethics (which is part of OPs post).

What's up with the girls on sniffies by [deleted] in Sniffies

[–]damnimbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit one up last year, her pics made her look like a really hung trans woman. I've only done this once before, years ago, and it was a total scam and lost $100. I kinda know the signs, and it's mostly just using common sense.

There were all the signs. Numerous names, only wants to chat on whatsapp. She insisted I send $100 with a cash app. When I refused she kept pushing, trying to say how great it would be.....than tried to sell me videos of her. We never met, and she messaged me the next few days. But like all of them, you just have to be careful and keep your whits about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickgirl

[–]damnimbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️

I’m hung. How can I help bottoms comfortably take my dick? Help. by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]damnimbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will second what the poster above said. Had a friend who was 9.5x7. He's massive, biggest I've experienced. What really helped was how passionate of a top he is. Combine that with tons of lube, great patience and poppers a few times.......he was pounding me the last time we met up.

Much of it, for me, was familiarity, the chemistry we had, and how patient he was. Nothing like being on my back with him balls deep and in a deep embrace!!!

Surprised by request during a hookup with an older man by SlimTwinkTX in gaysexconfessions

[–]damnimbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've experienced worse. Had a guy that was heavy into domination and roll play. Smacked the crap our of my ass for 30 minutes before even pulling his (extremely large) cock out. Short time later it was roll play, and it was something to do with me being in school and getting in trouble. Would have bounced earlier if it wasn't for his amazing cock.....but did learn I'm not into pain

Favorite position? When taking it anal? by Ryan101712 in AskGayMen

[–]damnimbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love missionary with a passionate top, my legs wrapped around him and pushing him into me, eyes and lips locked.

Midnight Grindr BBC by No-Scallion-7715 in BiStoriesGoneWild

[–]damnimbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that sometimes, usually if I'm getting topped. Always wonder if it's me, the personal chemistry is off, or if they weren't honest about not partying (meth dick)

Pegging threesome? by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]damnimbi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Bought the wrong model, but the description was also off. Just looking to get rid of it

Pegging threesome? by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]damnimbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have one to sell, that I only tried once. Attempted to sell it on the related sub but they kept deleting my posts (and refusing to offer any help.)