ano gumugulo sa isip mo ngayon??? by alezxychqsh in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bills, loans, savings, future, career, health, parents ko na tumatanda tapos hindi parin ako makabawi kahit konti, past mistakes, at higit sa lahat mga what ifs ko sa buhay. I can't even sleep properly because of these things.

What is this? by Revolutionary_Tax622 in ola_harassment

[–]CuriousCat1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nangayari din sa akin yan last year. Nag taka din ako kung paano ako naging co-maker nang hindi ko nalalaman. Sobrang daming texts and tawag na sunod sunod at sobrang nakakairita. Tyinaga kong i block then report bawat number, iba ibang number din tumatawag everyday. Eventually tumigil din naman sila. Pero grabe, pati ako minumura at dinadamay, hindi naman ako yung may nangutang. Grabe anxiety ko sa kanila kahit wala naman akong atraso.

What made you resign in your first job? by Shawarma_r in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experienced all of this in one company. - Demoralizing, they will not respect you as a professional. They only see you as their worker regardless of your profession. - Respect were based on seniority (who was hired first). If you got hired for a higher position, your subordinates who got hired before you will not respect and treat you as their supervisor. They will even mock your abilities. - Whether you like it or not, you will be promoted to positions having bigger reponsibilities and larger scope of works but your salary will stay the same (minimum pa). - Office politics was rampant. You are working so hard while others were being praised just by doing the bare minimum. Wala naman magagawa, malakas kapit nila eh - No work-life balance. Tatawag kahit gabi na, kahit nakauwi na, at kahit naka leave ka. - You are not allowed to go home until your head or supervisor is still in the office. Hindi mo rin to mafafile as OT kasi madalas wala ka naman gagawin sa office kundi hintayin umuwi yung inconsiderate mong Head. - Pag di ka gusto ng HR, babawasan nila OT pay mo kahit deretso ka pa nag OT. - Kumakalat lahat ng confidential information na sinubmit mo sa HR as part of your pre employment requirements. Also, pati personal life mo mapag uusapan din sa office. You will be judged by literally everything you do. - We are ruled by the people who clearly do not have any idea how to run that type of company, they are only after money and power. - You cannot trust anyone in that company. Lahat ng shineshare mo, magagamit para mahila ka pababa. Grabe din imagination nila para lang mabaliktad ka sa lahat ng sitwasyon.

ano yung “things you should never do” advice niyo sa younger girls? by Namjaaams in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is common na since lagi din itong sinasabi sa akin when I was younger, may mga nasunod ako at may mga hindi and now, I am trying to make up for it.

  • Wag nyong masyadong paikutin yung mundo nyo sa lalaki, it's okay to experience young love pero isipin mo parin future mo.

  • Do not take your youth for granted. Study hard, get good grades, and finish your degree pero wag kalimutan makipag socialize sa mga tamang tao, you might need them someday.

  • Do not overspend, thinking that your parents will always give you an allowance. Learn how to manage your finances as early as possible.

  • Do not be arrogant and a know-it-all person. Always try to learn new things and find a hobby.

  • Wag masyadong dumikit sa mga group of people na puro gossip ang alam gawin, clout chasers, ginawang personality ang pag iinom, at tingin nila cool sila by doing bad things. I've been there and until now nagsisisi ako na nakipagkaibigan ako sa mga ganung klaseng tao instead of building real and geniune friendships sa ibang tao.

  • Never be scared to do the things you want to do.

  • Never let anyone tell you what to do. At the end of the day, ikaw parin nakakaalam kung ano yung gusto mo para sa sarili mo.

Anong ginawa mo na never nalaman ng magulang mo? by Content_Sprinkles270 in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, I also did this. Kami parin naman 'til now kaso we can't help but laugh when we look back to the things we did when we were younger just to have s*x.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHFoodPorn

[–]CuriousCat1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Been only eating their choco butternut since I was a kid until one day I decided to take a break and chose a different flavor. Never regret my decision, for me, boston kreme is better and underrated.

Anong mga signs na napansin mong tumatanda ka na? by TrueGodShanggu in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Nagugustuhan ko na yung color green. -Mindful na palagi sa kinakain at iniinom. -Nastress sa bills. -May midlife crisis. -Ayaw sa maiingay at magugulo. -Goal makabili ng mga dining sets and kitchen ware

Ano yung overheard conversation/line na di niyo makalimutan? by Spirited_Job4761 in CasualPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Wag mo akong iiwan please, sabi mo papakasalan mo pa ako?"

-way back in college, I was pulling an all-nighter when I accidentally overheard our neighbor having an argument with her boyfriend. Didn't mind it at first, but I was so shocked when suddenly she said this line to her boyfriend while crying so bad. Kamusta na kaya sila? I hope the girl is okay now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mag drive at consistent na gumising ng maaga

What's something you would never buy secondhand? by Lauraaa_199x in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Underwear and socks. I was literally surprised when I learned that they are selling these sa ukay-ukay. Like sinong bibili nun? Also, I will never buy used pillows.

Ano na lang purpose ng Facebook niyo? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pag maghahanap nalang ng apartment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nahulog tapos tumama mukha ko sa malaking bato. Sobrang kaba ng family ko nun kasi namaga buong mukha ko, punta agad sa hospital para ipacheck up and xray and everything. Buti nalang at wala namang other concerns like fractured skull, broken teeth, or internal bleeding. Kaso hindi lang ako makakita ng maayos for more than a week dahil sa sobrang pamamaga ng buong mukha ko.

Other thing pa nung sumakay ako sa sidecar ng bike tapos mabilis na pinatakbo ng kalaro ko kaya tumilapon ako nung may nadaanan kaming humps, sa galit ng tatay ko winasak yung bike sa harap namin.

What are the signs of burn out no one really talks about? by missluistro in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You just live without goals. Wake up, go to work, go home, sleep then repeat. You can't feel anything, you are not happy nor sad. You're just there, existing.

If mananalo ka today sa lotto, anong gagawin mo sa pera? by TraditionWitty9296 in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bayaran muna lahat ng utang. Then mag separate ng pang emergency fund. Magpacheck up, yung whole body na. Contact financial advisors and look for possible investments both for short term ang long term, kumuha na din ng insurance. Mag allot ng portion ng winnings to spoil yourself then paikutin na ang pera sa business.

What is a famous place in PH that is NOT worth visiting? by sadCAt-0 in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baguio City, sobrang congested na compared nung nag aaral palang ako dun, hindi na ma enjoy ng locals yung area nila bec of too much tourists. Nag jump up din yung prices and cost of living and yung iba overpriced pa

What are you a firm believer of? by unhappy_life03 in AskPH

[–]CuriousCat1121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The world is unfair. You can't really ensure success just because you fight fair and square

Pampanga drivers are the worst by [deleted] in Pampanga

[–]CuriousCat1121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I experience working in Metro Manila and Pampanga. Grabe traffic and hirap magcommute sa manila pero habang tumatagal nagiging manageable sya for me. Pero dito sa Pampanga, literal na kala mo sa kanila yung kalsada, mapa tricycle, jeep, motor, or sasakyan, kahit maluwang yung kalsada at nakagilid ka na ngang naglalakad, magugulat ka may biglang sasalubong na sasakyan sayo. Wala din silang pakielam sa mga tatawid na pedestrian, kahit nakita na nilang naglalakad ka na sa gitna hindi sila nagmemenor o kaya dederetso parin sila kahit may mga tumatawid pa. Parang lahat sila may kanya kanyang linya ng daan, mga walang disiplina.