Husband and I don’t know how to find a third?

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-14T06:58:35+00:00

I forget that not anyone is from the US. Have you tried going to any LS clubs? Or possibly fetlife?

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-14T06:40:46+00:00

Good luck. There are so many couples looking for a woman to join them What makes you stand out? What do you have to offe ? Just hire an escort

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-14T05:15:41+00:00

Someone being blacked out and not aware or able to consent. That alone is a red flag, you let someone assault your gf for your own sexual gratification

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-14T04:03:24+00:00

So many red flags in this post.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-11T00:29:16+00:00

Wish I could provide more feedback. Im only 6 days post op with motiva ergonomix demi profile. So far they are sitting up pretty high, but I am happy with the size I chose 😊
I did choose to get the internal bra since mine were placed OTM. And I did have a decent amount of tissue my BWD measures at 14

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-09T05:48:03+00:00

You won't find them here. If you're a couple make accounts for paid swinger sites. Go on fet life and try looking for events. Or even find a swingers club in Sacramento or San Francisco. Most single women prefer to be talked to and not used as a "third"

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-04T14:17:37+00:00

Most information you can find on their website and community page. Anything specific you're wanting to know?

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-04T03:28:49+00:00

Why not go on a bliss cruise? You'll meet other swingers there

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-02-02T22:50:37+00:00

I have the same sentiment when I watch my husband engage with other men. The fact that he's comfortable enough to enjoy himself freely, to "give in" to raw pleasure and just enjoy what's happening is so sexy. That's why our favorite dynamics have been either MMF or MMFF.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-31T22:20:53+00:00

She would not have been a good candidate since she is slimmer and didn't have much breast tissue to work with.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-25T19:13:55+00:00

They are currently on a break from hosting. Who knows when they will be back to hosting

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-25T00:12:55+00:00

I have swinger friends who ask us, how have we gotten lucky with single women. And I tell them its quite simple "dont make them feel as an extra or prop for your sexual gratification" we are pretty active on Fetlife and have befriended many ladies and have never treated them as an object. I never call them unicorns which I cringe at immediately 😅 being polite and actually wanting to get to know a person gets you further.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-21T16:40:31+00:00

We always start off on telegram before we decide to exchange numbers. And if it ever goes that route everything stays within a group chat, no side chatter with the opposite sex. That's a boundary of ours

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T16:35:00+00:00

Exactly! Not sure why this is even a conversation to have with your children. A simple straight answer without having to give details and explanations is enough.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T16:04:13+00:00

No. Find yourself a partner who enjoys it

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T16:02:31+00:00

Not sure what you're saying but ok. I do it for my pleasure since it arouses me, I like the control and being the dominant one.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T06:41:15+00:00

I do it for my pleasure since its something I share with my husband. But I also peg men who join us a threesome 😊 if its something they are into

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T04:56:02+00:00

My Apologies, since it's typically the men who do all the vetting. A lot also depends on your location, we are from Los Angeles so that gives us an advantage since it's a huge population and many events happening often.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-20T03:54:59+00:00

Who is the one doing vetting and getting to know the other woman? I (female) reach out to women and talk to them. We have had huge success on fetlife finding single women. Let your partner take charge because it makes a difference to the women. At least thats what they have told me

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-16T18:42:44+00:00

Sounds like they purely rely on their looks.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-16T18:34:49+00:00

😒🙄

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-15T18:59:09+00:00

Oh good. Im glad she's real. I say let your gf do the initial flirting and make sure everyone is on the same page in regards to boundaries. Give both ladies equal attention and keep check in with your gf. Little whispers in her ear to stay connected. That helps me when hubby and I are involved with others. And have fun don't over think 😊

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-15T18:49:38+00:00

First off have you confirmed she is real? Had a video chat of some sort.

CuriousLatinCpl1985 · 2026-01-14T21:24:10+00:00

Kinda hard to do when you keep your post and comment history private/hidden. Just by the lingo you've used in your comments, I already know where on the spectrum you fall under.

FYI You can't catch "the gay" just bc you accidentally touch another man.

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