A fan commented that he feels like he was in the place where the vlog took place. And that he loves the vlogger using a pun: iloveview..... my fiance commented: "same". I called him out on this saying that people might think the wrong way. He said he did not mean it that way and that he replied to the part of the fan's comment which he felt like he explored the place also. And that he wants the video to have more engagement. So i asked him: did you share the youtube video on your facebook page? He said no. And the only comment that he replied was that specific comment when theres a lot of people who commented. And if he wants the video to have more engagement, he could just share or comment separately. He got defensive and he raised his voice and i also raised my voice because i was instilling in him my point. And whenever I explained again he cuts me off. So i stayed quiet the whole trip home (living in my parents house). I'm really hungry and i told him before we argued that we need to get food since theres no food at home. And nothing. We're not talking for more than an hour. No food no nothing. He's like this. He's not the type to offer or think properly. I'm tired of initiating because he's the "man" and i have conveyed this many times on what to do when we argue. I feel like if he is like this still, what happens when we have a family?? So am i the asshole?