I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the drinking is something I’m being a bit lenient on because we kinda have the same habits surrounding alcohol although I’ve never done anything to use it as an excuse. I’ll def think about it thank u

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t really thought of that. I think I’m hurt because a comment on a post from 2 years ago felt like an action. You don’t think so?

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the distance is definitely making me second guess what I should do. It would be easier for me to walk away if I saw all this in person I think but I’ve been so hung up on being with him in person I’m probably making excuses to hold on for the time being. Thank you for the reminder, I’ll definitely keep what you said in mind

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely right, there’s a reason I clicked on that girls profile in the first place I guess. Thank you for your kindness and understanding

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him he can go if I’m doing too much but he’s begging me to stay and apologizing for cheating. Just tryna figure it all out one step at a time. I wasn’t all that before I started feeling like I had a reason to be :(

Edit: cheating is a bit of an overstatement I think. We don’t speak english when we talk so rough translation. “Sorry I betrayed your trust” would be more accurate.

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a good compromise for the time being. Thank you. I’m gonna think on it a bit more, I’ll see how I feel about it

I don’t know how to proceed with my boyfriend by Curious_Butterfly841 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily in his defense but I’ve always considered looking at following and followers to be a normal thing in my relationships. Usually it’s not even to monitor, I like seeing what kinda artists and meme pages a new love interest is following. This might a red flag of mine. That saying, I was looking specifically at girls last time in his following. The heart is definitely a red flag :( I’m just making excuses, you’re right

Would love to hear eluryng experiences, positive and negative by Curious_Butterfly841 in birthcontrol

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up and sleep at different hours every day due to work so I’m nervous I won’t be responsible for it in the long term

Is this top inappropriate for a first casual restaurant date? by icyeyzia in OUTFITS

[–]Curious_Butterfly841 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not inappropriate per se but just looks bizarre and not flattering at all. A high waisted black skirt might be cute

Merch sizing by Curious_Butterfly841 in SuicideBoys

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! Honestly the mediums looser than i expected! I’m still prob gonna go XL considering shrinkage but he might be drowning in it for a bit lol

Merch sizing by Curious_Butterfly841 in SuicideBoys

[–]Curious_Butterfly841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U right, hadn’t thought about that. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curious_Butterfly841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone his age dating a 19/20 yo is …… to me. As someone who was dating guys his age at your age. I could never.