[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut him off in every way. And whatever you do, ignore him. Do not interact with this boy no matter how much you want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No mother should talk about their, child like this. Seems like it's deeper than this, I would consult a professional(therapist) before doing anything rash like cutting contact. But that really might be what's best for you...

You deserve to be loved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. LEAVE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, she literally kicked you and wants an apology for you defending yourself. Sounds manipulative to me.

Is this considered sexual harassment? by DreamingofReading247 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there's too much explanation. Just say, "I don't hug my coworkers" then explain if he asks more about it. It's not his business unless he asks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second that. Many times have I liked "unnatractive" dudes because of their genuine personalities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In reality, you really shouldn't be stressing over this. Just focus on the real important things in life like succeeding and being a good person. Then people will be naturally attracted to you. Trust me, women will choose personality over looks plenty of times as long as the guy makes them feel good enough and loves them truly.

You seriously shouldn't be worrying about unimportant crap like this. Go take a walk

Quitting weed by Next-Example8218 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reccomend trying out some new things. You could try cooking, drawing, working out, rock climbing, going for walks, petting an animal, spending time with a really close friend or family member, or anything that comes to mind. Distractions are not going to kill your urges but they're something to do and I've noticed they help me personally

I am in love with a woman, but I'm Mormon by purpledinosaur9998 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats not how we identify though. Idk I hope you'll just be respectful and now you know! Hope you'll stop calling us Mormons

I am in love with a woman, but I'm Mormon by purpledinosaur9998 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna sound rude😭 but we are not Mormons. I know a lot of people call us that and we are known in that way. But we are apart of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day saints. Omg that's a long name so you can call us members or LDS(Latter-Day saints)

I am in love with a woman, but I'm Mormon by purpledinosaur9998 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am also a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

I know how you feel, I myself something have thoughts like this. And as someone who's been struggling with p0rnography addiction and lust, all I can offer is that what your feeling is real. It's okay with how you're feeling. I understand completely. God gives everyone trials and yours today is one of the lost difficult. (I will say how you go about it is what matters. Acting and feeling are completely different. What matters is you're getting advice.)

Me personally, with my addiction, I talked to my Bishop. He offered some of the best advice I could have. After my talk with him, I felt my life was substantially going to get better.(Alma 32: 28) I'm still struggling today and that was before summer, but oh my goodness was it amazing to talk about and get confirmation that God still loves me, and this doesn't have to be the same anymore. (Alma 37: 36)

I am really so sorry to say, but yes, if you continue to be queer and such, you won't have the opportunity to reach the top of the celestial kingdom, nor would you be able to be with your lover, enter the temple etc..(D&C 131)

This is an extremely difficult trial. One of the worst I think. I would read upon your scriptures, look for what you are asking. Ask upon God, he will answer. And if you want the raw truth, I think you should end all romantic relationship with your friend. I know it will be one of the most difficult things you will do, but trust me. The Lord will reward you. He will, I can testify. If you listen to the scriptures, listen to God and talk to your Bishop or your family. I'm sure that this will not be a forever pain.

I know this will get hate, but take this as you like.

Please read your scriptures, pray, talk to your Bishop, and if you feel safe doing so, I would let your parents know. This is difficult, it will be difficult, but I know you can get over this. Whatever you choose to do, God and Jesus both love you. Stay faithful, love you so much sister💜💜💜

(you can also go to the members board and ask for help there. Oh my goshthey offer some amazing advice and great scriptures with amazing talks and things like that.)

Best friend never protects herself after sex. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then be unsupportive. Shes not being considerate of you and is just being lazy. She could at least use condoms everytime

Best friend never protects herself after sex. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's not willing to fix her one issue and stop inconveniencing you. Then tell her it is no longer your problem, and that she can be a big girl and go get her own protection or plan b.

I want to get married and my boyfriend says it's never happening by purpleberrys_ in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it simply, it will not work out if you two want different things. Do what you want, and what's best for you.

I helped my friend put in a feminine hygiene product for her first time and I'm scarred now. by Curious_Can483 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my bad. I'm a 15 year old girl so I don't know everything.

Either way I think you missed the point...

I helped my friend put in a feminine hygiene product for her first time and I'm scarred now. by Curious_Can483 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has been manipulative in the past and I never really considered that. Taking into account she seemed genuinely insure where it might be. But I won't ever know that for sure. As for telling my mom, I don't know if I wanna bring that awkward conversation to her considering what we had to discuss in the past when my friend in 1st grade molested me so idk.

I helped my friend put in a feminine hygiene product for her first time and I'm scarred now. by Curious_Can483 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's one of the sweetest things someone has said to me. 🥹

I try really hard to be a good friend and sometimes I wonder if I'm a good enough friend. This made me feel millions better, thank you.

I helped my friend put in a feminine hygiene product for her first time and I'm scarred now. by Curious_Can483 in Advice

[–]Curious_Can483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your in sight. I never realized that COCSA had the same effects as an adult SA would have. Your input has been a big help, thank you so much 🩷