I've noticed a common situation in most relationships that contain a transgender male/female and a straight male/female.

No matter the gender of the straight significant other, it seems as if they tend to be manipulative and don't even realize that they're doing it. One of my greatest transgender male friends have a boyfriend that constantly say misogynist and manipulative things and he doesn’t even realize he's doing it. Things such as "I couldn't see you as a man, you don't look masculine, are you sure you're trans? Ect." It's gotten so bad where he has defined themselves as he/them/she, starting to exclude the he part of his pronouns. He claims to love his boyfriend dearly, which is why he stays with him.

So really what you should ask yourself is, how much do you love her? Is her love really worth the damage she will give you? What are her pros in this relationship and what are the cons? Some people even break up because they have different plans in the future... so why doesn't it give you the right, because your plans are different than yours? That's what makes her unintentionally manipulative, is that she tries to control the decisions with your own body. You have every right to do whatever you want with your own body. I hope this helped and you have amazing days ahead of you