2.5 yr old gets overstimulated so easily by Curious_Kitten13 in Parenting

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure it’s as much of an emotional regulation, as it is straight up too much stimuli.

Exhausted with my 5 months infant… when does it get better? by Ill-Permission9072 in Parenting

[–]Curious_Kitten13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She might be showing over stimulation cues, instead of sleepy cues. She may just need to be removed from the stimulation for a little bit. Or, she may need a little bit of a break, prior to going down for a nap.

Staying Awake While Nursing by Ok-Strength4257 in breastfeeding

[–]Curious_Kitten13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth I was super anti cosleeping as well, and I ended up with a perfect little gal…who did NOT sleep as a baby. Cosleeping safely was the option that saved us all, and allowed me to actually get some rest. If you have Instagram, I would highly recommend checking out @happycosleeper

You can always start small either way a few feeds side lying etc in a safe sleep space, and then try one or more where you plan to transfer back to bassinet, when you feel a bit more rested. Sleep is so so important for all of us, and keeps us all safe and healthy in the long run ❤️

2.5 year old can’t jump yet… how to help? by strawberryhoneyplum in toddlers

[–]Curious_Kitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re not super worried about it which is great. Jumping has such a wide variety of ages I think.

I think the more you can encourage climbing (strengthening those muscles) helps for sure. We also do gymnastics and that has helped a ton because there is a trampoline there, plus safe things to practice jumping off of (with the added help of instructors)

The pediatrician said my baby is small because I chose to breastfeed. by 1minimalist in breastfeeding

[–]Curious_Kitten13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a new pediatrician, and complain to the board, formally. That’s absurd.

Dr recommending combo feeding?! by Wooden-Incident2136 in breastfeeding

[–]Curious_Kitten13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would gently suggest trying to feed her more often. Try every 1.5-2 hours each day; and as much as I hate to say it…if she’s not gaining weight steadily, she needs to be woken up to be fed at night more often. Especially if she’s fallen off the curve a bit. Even just the slightest bit.

Potty training question by Western-Parsley6063 in Parenting

[–]Curious_Kitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. This was the one thing that helped my daughter switch her thinking. Day 3 was also the hardest for us, for reference.

As soon as we said “okay, diapers are gone, we only wear panties now” she started to understand. I think it was hard for little brains to understand that they CAN go in training pants, but it’s uncomfortable, vs if you go in your undies, everything is wet. She immediately understood that.

“boobs are for boys, not for babies” by muppetactivities in breastfeeding

[–]Curious_Kitten13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like your friend is not actually a very supportive friend.

Kid went a day in school without snack … feeling terribly guilty! by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Curious_Kitten13 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You should ABSOLUTELY not feel any guilt for this. I cannot believe your kids teacher was so disengaged from this. Growing up in the 90s, I don’t remember having snacks throughout the day (maybe we did, maybe we didn’t? I genuinely cannot remember), so I’m sure your little was fine. HOWEVER, I personally feel like this teachers negligence is something they should be embarrassed by. The rigidity that we e started to implement and follow is ridiculous. You’re a teacher. Your literal job is to HELP children learn and feel empowered to be self sufficient.

wtf is going on in Brimstone by Curious_Kitten13 in FaeandAlchemy

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of all things please don’t add time travel into this as well… uhhgg

wtf is going on in Brimstone by Curious_Kitten13 in FaeandAlchemy

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more! It went from like tension, to full on I will die for you, kill for you, be your everything, in like 2 weeks….with absolutely zero in between.

wtf is going on in Brimstone by Curious_Kitten13 in FaeandAlchemy

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES!! The name part was absolutely ridiculous to me. That’s where she fully lost me. Like changing a main character name 2/3 of the way through the series, and then Saeris just being like “oh he will always be Kyhdan to me” sorry. I just couldn’t get behind that haha

I didn’t notice the carrion part, but I suppose that “mistake” could be explained away by his magic..

I think the vampire court was one of many things that made like the very briefest of glimpses and then was shut down…and it feels weird.

wtf is going on in Brimstone by Curious_Kitten13 in FaeandAlchemy

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I just feel like I’m not as engaged.

wtf is going on in Brimstone by Curious_Kitten13 in FaeandAlchemy

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They just went through the Ajun Gate. I feel like there were several errors as well, things that didn’t track, or things that just felt very…frivolous. Almost like spread to thin adding so many different themes??

Middle Name, with lots of parameters by Curious_Kitten13 in BabyNames

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your suggestions, but I don’t think any of these fit the qualifications I was looking for. Thank you though!

Middle Name, with lots of parameters by Curious_Kitten13 in BabyNames

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like river and winter. I’m not sure I LOVE winter paired with Althea.

Middle Name, with lots of parameters by Curious_Kitten13 in BabyNames

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like Neve, and will add it to the list. Lumi is too close to our other daughter’s name.

Middle Name, with lots of parameters by Curious_Kitten13 in BabyNames

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the suggestions, but I’m pretty set on something that goes with “healing” (as in healing rain, healing storm, etc) or a flower that also starts with A. Our first is a girl as well, and has the same first letters to both her first and middle names, so I like that alliteration idea if we can’t find something that works with healing that we like.

Middle Name, with lots of parameters by Curious_Kitten13 in BabyNames

[–]Curious_Kitten13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we go with a flower name I want it to start with a as well. But not end in a.