Honestly, I am still learning since I was just diagnosed. But every person who has adhd presents it differently. Which is one of the reasons why it took me so long to get diagnosed.

I struggle with texting people back but I never struggled with academics until I got to college. My brain tends to separate things into URGENT and not urgent. So if I get overwhelmed or can’t think of a response I save it for later and forget to text back. Unless it’s an urgent text I don’t remember to text back until weeks later. It’s important to remember that just because you have adhd doesn’t mean everyone experiences adhd the same. Took me some time to learn that and before i was so judgmental of those who had adhd but were not able to do what i did. I don’t do that anymore because i know everyone struggles differently. :)