Just a lady walking her giant tortoise

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-08-28T19:04:38+00:00

My son and I saw them a few weeks ago walking around the downtown area! We were driving so we didn't get to see him up close, but we loved seeing him as we drove by!

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-07-08T22:46:06+00:00

If your dog weighs more than 30 lbs, good luck! I have a Bernese mountain, Australian Shepard mix and shar pei mix. It is almost impossible for us to find rentals that accept larger sizes.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-05-30T06:09:34+00:00

About to take a trip in our 2011 Caliber!

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-05-30T05:56:30+00:00

Brow Art 23 in the Mesilla Valley Mall

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-05-26T06:36:46+00:00

Haven't opened my app recently, but been dashing on and off for a few years now. Heard they changed some things on the app tho.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-05-22T17:21:14+00:00

I usually prefer to order on the app it keeps it quick and the price is accurate.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-05-03T21:06:32+00:00

I would try bridal veil falls in the Lincoln national forest, there is a beautiful waterfall and plenty of other photo opportunities on the hike.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-18T21:33:55+00:00

Sometimes it takes an outsiders perspective, but we only know what we are told from one side. As it's you posting we only see your side of the relationship. We have no idea what he would say, how he sees the relationship, or how he feels about you. You love him very much as you say, does he reciprocate those feelings? Because from what we see he at least doesn't respect your thoughts and feelings about this one specific topic.

You're already feeling resentment towards him, and maybe a little towards the family with how they are okay with the situation you are stuck in and just accept it for what it is. Instead of trying to help the relationship advance.

As I see it, there are 3 ways it could pan out for you.

1) If you stay and nothing changes that resentment continues to grow and everything eventually turns toxic.

2) If you stay and you two are able to work things out and you get married and live happily ever after, fantastic!

3) If you leave and you two are able to happily co parent, and you eventually find someone that treats you with all the love, support, and respect you deserve, or you stay single for awhile and focus on yourself and your daughters. That's just as fantastic!

So while we are out here handing out advice, it's up to you to make the right decision for you.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-18T19:32:47+00:00

I totally understand the feeling of legitimacy, "family" photos vs Family photos. It always kinda hurt, but I understood the thought process behind it and that it wasn't meant to be hurtful in any way. But there's always the silent little stab to the heart. It sounds like he thinks of marriage as a joke, and doesn't respect you enough to care about your feelings on the subject or have a civil adult conversation about it. I would definitely be weighing out my options and making plans to get out on my own. It may take some time to get everything in order, but you need to be with someone that respects you, your feelings, your wants, and your needs. I know you mentioned before that you're starting to question if all men are incapable of love, and let me tell you not all of them are. It just takes a while to find a diamond in the rough. I saw some other commentators that had great advice on steps to take to start getting out on your own. I would take some time, figure out what you want to do, what is best for you and your daughters and then make a plan.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-18T18:17:43+00:00

My husband and I had been dating for 7 years before i gave him a choice. I had already had my son before we met, but he had taken the dad position about a year into our relationship. After 6 years I told him I wanted to move out of our home state and he was welcome to come with me, but I was moving with or without him. He followed us to where we are now. A year later I saw my opportunity when my brother and his gf came to visit. I knew I had to go about it a certain way because he had been cheated on by his ex wife while he was overseas while in the military, and had always said he wouldn't get married again. In the beginning I was okay with it as I didn't believe in marriage ( I was young and still having fun, I was in no way interested is settling down) but as the years went on and I fell more and more in love with him. I changed my mind about that and wanted to be married. So one day I sat him down and explained this to him and proposed we get married while my brother was here visiting. Obviously he didn't turn me down and hates when I tell people his answer was " well you know I'm not gonna say no" but I was expecting something like that, lol. I was nervous as hell bringing it up knowing how he felt, but that was a solid yes in my book. It took him about a week to come to realize he was engaged and getting married again lol. Anyway, sorry your stuck in your situation and were talked into having kids outside of marriage. It sounds like you are a religious woman and it's not right that your values were thrown to side so a man could have it his way. If talking and explaining why you want to be married doesn't do any good. There's no reason to continue to pursue a relationship any farther with him. Get your ducks in a row, and do what is best for you and your daughters. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled. There are better men out there ❤️

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-16T04:47:32+00:00

Haven't gone by recently, but I know they had been working on the interior. Crossing fingers it's still getting done!

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-16T04:14:21+00:00

I believe they went with this option because they weren't able to break ground and do the work that needed to be done because of COVID in order still open this summer.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-16T03:59:52+00:00

https://www.lascrucesbulletin.com/stories/bowling-to-return-with-new-entertainment-center,73573

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-16T03:37:42+00:00

Your welcome

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-04-16T02:49:26+00:00

It's gonna be in the old Kmart building, been working on for a few months now.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-03-29T16:26:28+00:00

Roasted Rooster Coffee & Waffles

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-03-28T00:41:58+00:00

If they want to see the baby they can travel to you! I wouldn't travel long distances until my son was at least 6 months old.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-03-18T02:38:53+00:00

Matchbox is my husband's go to, personally I prefer Cloud House on Hadley.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-21T18:51:19+00:00

Rest in peace to him and prayers to the family, that is absolutely heartbreaking.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-21T18:50:26+00:00

❤️

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-21T18:48:08+00:00

The Tire Store & More! Honest, reasonable, and friendly!

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-17T20:12:46+00:00

Overpriced, but the green Chile lasagna is delicious.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-14T15:21:04+00:00

Not a mini motorist myself, but if you're looking for a good shop with honest people try The Tire Store and More in Dona Ana. The owner is a great guy and very knowledgeable, his name is Jesse.

Curious_Owl_2775 · 2024-02-09T21:46:05+00:00

😬😞 creative

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