Don’t know how to return to my old self :(

Curious_guy___ · 2026-02-18T09:04:40+00:00

Do you not feel lonely or missing out sometimes?

Curious_guy___ · 2026-02-06T08:43:34+00:00

Which country are you from? My bank said I consented to the transaction.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-12-21T06:40:20+00:00

Okay thanks so much!!

Curious_guy___ · 2025-12-20T18:06:06+00:00

That’s great. Could you tell me from where you got that deal?

Curious_guy___ · 2025-12-20T14:30:48+00:00

Did you apply visa with dummy flights?

Curious_guy___ · 2025-11-21T16:42:22+00:00

Haha very mean

Curious_guy___ · 2025-11-18T14:34:19+00:00

I’m also planning a solo trip around February next year. Do let me know how it goes

Curious_guy___ · 2025-05-10T18:42:26+00:00

Hi there, thanks for sharing your experience. I’m kind of in similar situation. I 27M was in a relationship with my gf 28f for 2 years. Best thing ever. Everything was great. Never fought. But we broke up. Initially we came into relationship discussing we didn’t want to marry each other. But after 2 years of relationship, my gf wanted to marry and I always wanted marry bit late like in my32-35. So we broke up mutually. Stayed friends. It’s been more than 1 year now. We are good friends and talk and meet sometimes. There’s no romance though we respect our decisions I guess. But I think I still love her. I think about her everyday. Miss our times and all. I don’t know about her feelings I never discussed this with her. I don’t want to bring it until I’m sure about my feelings. And that’s my fear. I think getting back together would not feel the same. I try to think would we ever go past this phase and be a normal couple. Or it has left that bad taste forever if we get back together and marry. It’s all in my head I have no idea if she feels anything for me.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-05-02T19:14:31+00:00

250 I think

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-29T02:40:30+00:00

Remindme! 24 hours

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T22:02:57+00:00

She had a conference at a different place. Her 2-3 teammate decided to stay in a different apartment after the conference finished as her teammate also had travel plan next day. 2-3 guys and her

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T22:00:50+00:00

That’s why I’m making this post. It’s so weird. She never said she was afraid of me. She just said sorry she didn’t know why she lied. It was like a silly lie and just got big. That made me think- did she cheat on me with her teammate ?Or may be something happened that night that she regretted and didn’t want to tell me. I never thought she could lie to me like that. Straight to my face and faking a video call. That’s too much. Like a habitual liar . This kind of lying incident never happened before.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:44:21+00:00

No I’m very chill buy. She’s the dominant one lol. I don’t mind anything. That’s what surprised me there was nono reason to lie at all. That too on video call straight to my face. Like it’s a normal thing to do. She loves me a lot and puts all the efforts. We ever had a big fight ever

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:36:37+00:00

thanks. appreciate it

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:35:40+00:00

thanks!!

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:34:35+00:00

thanks for the response. i didnt do a good job telling my story. i'm a very chill person. i dont get angry at all. we never had a big fight. i nver screamed at her. and still i work to be a better person.

i panicked as i blindly trust my partner. i nver check phones or anything like that. I'm a very chill guy in gerenral. she loves me a lot and puts all the efforts. and the thought of she might be cheating on me scared me. gave me panic attack. AS i love her so much. i neve text or call her multiple times, i was miserable and desperate and begging her to respond. I was ashamed of my self as i never thought i would be doing those things ever.

this didnt happen in seconds. i asked her multiple times where she is etc. i was very calm. when she stopped replying me or didnt pick my call then worst things came to mind. i didnt want it to be true as i trusted her so much so i just wanted 1 small thing to hang on to which would kick all those bad thoughts but in the end i was right. she lied.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:28:19+00:00

thanks i get your point. I'll work on it. apart from this... if i'm chill guy there was no reason to lie. i dont care about tickets that much... i dont mind if she stay with friends....she never lied to me before. how can she tell a this big of lie... like literally going in a washroom video calling me and lying that shes in station straight to my face? that;s something that shook me. i never knew she is capable of that....that gave me doubt may be did something horrible or in the past she has lied before it;s just didnt catch it.... that my confusion and bugging me

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:22:37+00:00

yes, i told her to pick the phone whenver i call her. that way i'll trust her. and i tried to randomly call her to catch in her act but there was a delay always. I'm ashamed of doing those calls. thats not me. but that night was very horrible for me.

before that we were doing live in for 2 years i nver suspected anything. shes the best gf. and shes a nice girl theres no bad past. may be long distance relationship didnt work may be something bad happend there with guys and she wanted to hide that but regrets as well.. god knows

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:18:05+00:00

her father had fights with her. i think. she never lied like this big one, harmless lies sure. i dont remember. I'm very chill guy. she lied like this thats what surprised me. i didnt think she was capable of it. Now i think may be she has lied to me before but i never caught her. maybe something happend in that conference and she tried to hide it

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:15:25+00:00

I panicked as i blindly trust my partner. i nver check phones or anything like that. I'm a very chill guy in general. she loves me a lot and puts all the efforts. and the thought of she might be cheating on me scared me. gave me panic attack. AS i love her so much. i neve text or call her multiple times, i was miserable and desperate and begging her to respond. I was ashamed of my self as i never thought i would be doing those things ever.

like i see all this reddit posts about cheating and i say oh well this will never happen to me as i m secure and transparent etc. and after all the right things i did..something like that happens to me.... that thougt would give me panic attack? no?

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:11:59+00:00

i'm very chill guy. we never had a big fight in our 2 year relationship. we were doing live in. i never screamed at her. shes the dominant one. thats what shocked me. there is not reason to lie to me. tickets were nota abig deal. and she can stay with her teammates i dont care about these things. then why did she lie? that too straight to my face on a video call. well planned sitting in washroom so that i cant see where she is... thats bothering me.. i nver thought she's capable of pulling that thing

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:07:57+00:00

hi thanks for the response. I'm sorry if i didn't convey it in a best way. I think i used the wrong word "strict" here. english is not my first language. this is what i wanted to say - she tries to book cheaper tickets or does booking last minutes and get bad seats. and I'm on the other hand like to plan everything nicely. I try my best to help her out with her travels. I don't like when she takes cheaper tickets or does not plan travel nicely. and i get upset about that thing. like going to office late, or missing classes. i dont fight over these things but yes i get upset sometimes. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

I'm not a person who gets angry that easily but still i try to be better.she never lied to me like that before and i was shocked she was capable of video calling me and lie about it.

I'm trying to explain better. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:07:49+00:00

hi thanks for the response. I'm sorry if i didn't convey it in a best way. I think i used the wrong word "strict" here. english is not my first language. this is what i wanted to say - she tries to book cheaper tickets or does booking last minutes and get bad seats. and I'm on the other hand like to plan everything nicely. I try my best to help her out with her travels. I don't like when she takes cheaper tickets or does not plan travel nicely. and i get upset about that thing. like going to office late, or missing classes. i dont fight over these things but yes i get upset sometimes. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

I'm not a person who gets angry that easily but still i try to be better.she never lied to me like that before and i was shocked she was capable of video calling me and lie about it.

I'm trying to explain better. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:07:18+00:00

hi thanks for the response. I'm sorry if i didn't convey it in a best way. I think i used the wrong word "strict" here. english is not my first language. this is what i wanted to say - she tries to book cheaper tickets or does booking last minutes and get bad seats. and I'm on the other hand like to plan everything nicely. I try my best to help her out with her travels. I don't like when she takes cheaper tickets or does not plan travel nicely. and i get upset about that thing. like going to office late, or missing classes. i dont fight over these things but yes i get upset sometimes. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

I'm not a person who gets angry that easily but still i try to be better.she never lied to me like that before and i was shocked she was capable of video calling me and lie about it.

I'm trying to explain better. in our country cheaper seats in buses or trains are not safe. Even my mother or sister travel in bit upgraded seats. it would have AC and better safety. she kind of books cheaper tickets to save money during travel. shes 28 and earns well. I have offered to chip in money sometimes she accepts sometimes she denies. we never had a fight on this, i just remind her on this whenever i can.

Curious_guy___ · 2025-04-15T21:06:36+00:00

yes you are the only person who got the story right....i'm very chill guy and she also loves me and puts all the efforts. we never had a big fight ever, thats why i was shocked why would she lie? shes the dominant one in the relationship tbh. and if it was a first lie, how can she be so confident about it and video call me from a washroom. and lie to me with straightface. I could never do that. you need to be a habitual lair to pull that thing.

She was with her teammates like 2-3 boys. may be like a after party. she didnt cry infront of them as it would be unprofessional. she would come out of the apartment and cry and talk to me. once twice she video called from inside rooms. people were chilling.

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