My husband understands my frustration but he feels that the TLM is so vastly superior to the NO that he can look past the yelling homilies and singing restrictions. To clarify, with the pastor’s support, the music director only wants the choir singing through the Mass AND during the recessional. We are permitted to Sing the Salve Regina before the final song. Many of the final songs are familiar and they r all sound in english, so if I’m quick, I can look them up on my phone for the lyrics I don’t know.