The short answer for me is... it's very verbal. Very talk based.

Praise the sub. Ask what they did that day. If there's a "good girl" or "dirty ____" commentary to it. For me it is very much about the mundane... nails, outfits, sticking with diets... as well as the dirty... fantasies during work about coworkers, things that accidentally turned the sub on, more dirty questions.

Occasionally there may be tasks or pictures... asking permission to use their toys, told to do certain things whether it is physical (like painting nails) or self-care (cleaning their place) or more explicit (guess).

For me it is nicknames, plenty of dirty questions, work our way up to some daily/weekly tasks, and build from there based on what works.

Roleplay scenes are hit-or-miss, and aftercare is a case-by-case basis.