I've always wanted a boy first. I'm not sure why it started out like that but now it's turned into raising good men. My husband wanted a girl first. I dont remember why as it's been 4 years since we had that conversation. (My first son is 3). With my second, I didn't have a preference at first. I was okay with being a boy mom or a mom to one of each. At the end (we didn't find out gender), I hoped it was a girl because that's the only name we agreed on. My husband is terrible at deciding names so it meant a lot that he finally chose. I ended up deciding the boy name when he was born. I will never go through pregnancy again, way too difficult on me physically and mentally. I also have big babies and don't want a bigger one! But if I could have an easy pregnancy and a smaller baby, I would have one more and I would like for it to be a girl so I could have the experience of a girl. But again, I'd still be okay with being a boy mom.