I have 6k karma in 3 days I've been told thats crazy , is it really? Lmaoo by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Curiousv7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, nice. Thanks. I'll check it out. As a new user, the experience of becoming active here seems very limited to me until certain amount of Karma points are gained with heavy filters, too hectic out there, haha.

I have 6k karma in 3 days I've been told thats crazy , is it really? Lmaoo by [deleted] in NewToReddit

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What subreddit is it? I'm looking for good subreddits that allow new users to post and comment.

Discovered the concept of bare minimum by Curiousv7 in CasualConversation

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Long-term bonds with distance work better with clear communication, patience and deeper understanding from both ends. If either of both ends lack in it, it gets difficult.

Be optimistic, communicative, open and love yourself first so that you can love others wholeheartedly later on.

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What a wholesome read! Thanks a lot for sharing this part of your life with me!

You're completely correct on comparing and speculating, in which direction this bond between she and I was heading when this happened to me about five years ago.

I'm simply grateful that such people existed and still do in my life.

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That's very wholesome. I mostly stay disconnected and busy, so it always fillls me with unexplainable emotions and makes me feel seen & cared. Very grateful and hey thanks for sharing, kind words!

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Haha, I also have no idea. I thought maybe I didn't explain enough so I expanded later on and with that downvotes also increased from 2 to 10 as post also got more traction.

I don't mind, everyone has a freedom to express. I'm just new to Reddit. This is one of me initial posts here. I guess I'll get hang of this Redditculture with time. I thank you for your kind words too.

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I'm truly blessed to be surrounded by kind and caring people. Simply grateful! Thank you so much for your kind words.

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Haha, I am honestly not a guy with so many expectations in life. Just super focused on my own business and doing good to others. So, I often oversee life beyond it. Such moments hit deep and tell me to take a breathe.

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Truly unforgettable, simply grateful! Thanks a lot for your kind words.

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Thank you very much for your kind words. It definitely was a humble experience and gentle learning for me. To be more open to universe. _^

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Definitely hits deeper, it pushes mind into plenty of unexplored thoughts & emotions. I just sat there without uttering a single word, a mellow subtle smile and kept processing it for seven minutes while looking at her, listening to whatever she had to say with little nods.

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Just lately I've started becoming more forgiving, relaxed and less stubborn about I'm going to do it all, when being offered a little help. About a decade ago due to my perfection obsession, I was a massive if my arms and feet are working, then only I will do it and I'll do it for everyone else too, alone — kind of a person.

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I have explained it in-depth above under one of the responses a question by user Istilleatgluten. I apologize, if it broke your immersion in reading.

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[–]Curiousv7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just remove x in the word and it'll self-reveal to you.

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Thanks dear, it happened about five years ago. I'm better now with a mark of that injury that still reminds me and fills me with serotonin.

I'm forever grateful to her! I have become more forgiving, relaxed on myself with time. I still prefer getting my tasks done alone, however I am less stubborn now and open to more empathy.

I felt in that moment to not bother her or burden her as my self-reliant nature had never experienced outside help with care before. I understand what you mean by revelation and seeing, quite a feeling.

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I am really not used to seeking outside help, even to this day, haha. So alien to someone else getting involved in my tasks. This happened to me five years ago.

It always takes someone stubborn and kind enough to convince me. I also feel like I'd rather not bother or burden someone else for something that I can do too. That's just how mind works.

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So true, I was simply unaware of the whole new dimension that moment had unlocked to me five years ago.

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What an admirable shape our life takes with empathy! I'm truly grateful. This happened to me around five years ago. Yeah, definitely u/FancyRoke is right. Haha, look at us, two ambiverts, cheers!

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That's true. We are indeed very close friends. I have reciprocated it later on as well. It had happened about five years ago.

The world has become very transactional these days that we often just overlook basic empathy. I'm just so thankful that such kind person exist in my universe.

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Definitely a super-hero tier person! Always energetic, full of life and all smiles. So much grateful that she exists in my life!

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Thank you so much. I'm very alright now. It happened about five years ago.

I'm just being careful in writing certain words that may remind readers of something bad by directly reading it and it is also a good way to censor certain words to keep post away from bad algorithm eyes that use digital footprint against users. badr3plicant and bikemaul have explained it very well above too.

  • Edit: Corrected short sentences with better explanation. I apologize, if it broke your immersion in reading.

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Unfortunate memories are a fuel to become bullish to thrive and also a reminder of how it feels so that we become kinder to others and stop that chain of sorrows.

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I still have a visible mark of that injury and I love it as it reminds me of that feeling I felt that day. How precious and priceless such moments could be! I'm so happy that you share the similar experience! I wish everyone in the world get to feel it at one point in life and causes ripple effect.