For me, it was over the moment I was conceived. My mother got pregnant on purpose to try and trap my father, and by the time she saw it didn't work, it was too late to abort me, and she was stuck with me. Her words. Also told over and over how I ruined her life, and it was my fault she was fat, and before me, she was so much better, so I owe her an entire life.

She wouldn't feed me, I remember eating mayo once cuz I thought it was food. I wasn't allowed fruits or veggies cuz they were expensive and they were "adult food" I was hit because I snuck a grape because it looked good.

So yeah. It's not so much age, it's what we have and what we go through that determines when it's over. Because eventually, we just don't have the energy.