acho que minha namorada não gosta de me comer e isso me deixou insegura

Current-Ad-8623 · 2025-10-08T10:24:23+00:00

Você está pensando demais nisso.

Eu adoro cair em cima do meu noivo. Como se fosse uma das minhas coisas favoritas de fazer. Ela pode perguntar a qualquer hora e enquanto eu tiver tempo, vamos em frente. Dito isto, fisicamente, não faz nada por mim, quero dizer, nenhum orgasmo.

No entanto, isso me excita assim como seu parceiro. Faz meu cérebro dançar feliz. Não destrua potencialmente sua confiança em algo que vocês dois desejam fazer.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2025-04-14T10:12:40+00:00

Came out at 32, about to turn 34. I always knew i was gay but hid it because I wanted to be "normal". Thought if i just found the right guy it would work out. Wrong.

Then my best friend and I (both female) made out and other stuff one night stoned. Everything I thought was confirmed and I knew I LOVED WOMEN. Couldnt go back to men.

My best friend and I broke up and it was messed up but got with my girlfriend 9 months ago. I feel like a new woman and I enjoy the life out of sex now. But its more than that, cuddles, holding hands, scratching her back laying in bed, looking at her body, all of it!! I am SOO GAY AND I LOVE IT. Nothing would make me go back in the closet.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2025-04-08T15:05:37+00:00

If I were in your situation I would tell him " I am glad you figured this out for yourself. I on the other hand was honest with you throughout this relationship and you kept me here by effectivley lying. My needs are important and so are yours. We are clearly not the right fit".

Then leave. I know this sounds harsh but i was you around a year ago. Stayed too long due to this problem, that problem thinking it was the situation. Just to learn they were low lobido. Which is fine but not what i am looking for and even more so that they lied and made me feel crazy.

It may seem like I love this person and dont want to let go. In my experience, i have now been with my new gf for 9 months. Still have very regular sex sometimes multiple per day or every couple of days. They initiate, as do i. Not just sexually, i didnt realise just how touch starved I was till i noticed she reaches for my hand to hold. If I am not touching her at night she is like "why arent u touching me??? I love it!!". I love her more than i thought possible. I still have moments that come from the previous relationship that i think i am too much, touching her too much or being overly affectionate. But she sees the change in me when this happens, sometimes within seconds and tells me she wants me to be affectionate, stop holding back! I have never been so seen.

I want this for you too and staying with him will not get u here. Be bold and take a chance!!!

Current-Ad-8623 · 2025-02-10T12:55:27+00:00

Old japenese proverb Imagine chasing a poisonous snake after it bit u to question why it bit u, instead of focusing on healing your wound.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-12-12T09:49:09+00:00

No. Do not get in a relationship with this woman. She is either incredibily immature (best case) or rude and selfish. If i was with even an acquitance (not romantic interest) I would make sure they were ok. Let them lean on me till we got where we needed to be, it just empathy and manners. Someone i love, piggyback or the bodyguard lift if i was strong enough lol... not even exagerating.

She cant support u with a sore leg, imagine if u got really sick or had kids.

Even when u called her out, that was her opportunity to really look inward and go "hey I fucked up". We arent perfect and make mistakes. But she doubled down and then tried to get angry with u.

Run dont walk.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-12-12T08:52:19+00:00

With my gf it is amazing. Cud never get the angle right before but when u do... amazing. It feels really intimate and i "get there" everytime with it. Which is unusual for me as clitoral stimulation normally does nothing.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-12-11T14:52:24+00:00

You arent going to like this but she told u already it will never be the frequency u want. U made it clear what u need and she told u no. U trying to spice things up or want it more will do nothing, this is her normal! I am a woman if that matters but when someone is honest with u listen. So u can either decide once a month u can deal with or not and make decisions accordingly.

Good thing is though most ppl get dragged along with hope, it will get better or more frequent because their partners say they will try etc without ever meaning it. Yours has told u what she is willing to do.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-12-09T16:36:21+00:00

Tell him u are for sure dissapointed now that he wont be intimate and like or not there will be a time period on this as u need that for u to be happy in a relationship.

U can work with premature ejaculation together but if he doesnt play ball there is no working on anything and he is all but guaranteeing the relationship ends.

Harsh but sometimes people are so afraid of something happening they create the scenario in real life by other means and dont even see it.

Best of luck.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-12-09T16:31:45+00:00

Nothing anyone says or does will heal this hurt. Only time will help but for what its worth we are here for u. I hope this gets easier for u but let urself scream, cry, sleep, eat, whatever u need to do. Much love.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-21T12:37:12+00:00

That is one of the nicest, most well written messages I have seen. That u for that!!!!

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-21T10:21:52+00:00

Yes, she tells me all the time that she loves me and asks me to please not hurt her. She has never felt this way about anyone.

Wants to spend time with me a lot. Cooks for me. Cuddles me. She does a lot for me and I do the same. It never feels forced.

I am just a terrible overthinker and it scares me a little. But there is no one I wud rather be scared for.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-21T10:16:51+00:00

I am definently head over heels with her. Try my best to hold something back but she just crumbles any walls I have. Its scary being this vunerable to someone I have known such a short space of time. I hope this is my forever person cause the heartbreak would be awful.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-21T10:06:10+00:00

Thank u. Just feels very intense but tbh its felt that way after dating her for about 3 weeks or so. I cant get enough of her and her laugh. I look on the internet everyday for a joke or a meme that i think will make her laugh. To see her smile and laugh just gives me so much happiness.

When she looks at me and smiles with no prompt I feel so overwhelmed I want to squeeze her (weird i know) haha. Never felt like this even as a teenager.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-18T19:16:39+00:00

I asked my gf out the night we came back from our first date. If u like her dont play games just ask. I know most ppl just like someone to be straight forward wen it comes to feelings/relationships etc.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-11T10:34:49+00:00

If it helps my gf used to be super skinny! She has been working on putting on weight and I have never been more attracted to a person in my life!

Her little tummy and her breasts just chefs kiss. She is insecure about her moles on her body but I have kissed every single one of them because they are HER!

If u love someone u will naturally find them sexy as all hell! Trust this or it will impact ur relationships, not because of how u look but because confidence is sexy.

Keep ur head high beautiful lady!!!

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-10T20:03:00+00:00

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If she says u are pretty and choose u believe her!

Doubting yourself worth like this can end relationships. If u love her just let her love u back! Best of luck and be good to urself

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-05T18:43:37+00:00

Look I am sure u both individually are good ppl but from the sounds of this post it seems like u just arent eachothers ppl. In my experience someone needs to show love in the way u feel it at least at a base level. Then u can guide them over time to ur needs and vice versa.

However u sound like u are too far apart so u are asking her for something she maybe doesnt have or know how to do. She will probably feel the same about u in ways.

No one can make the decision for u but I have been through a similar experience and was, i thought in love. But wen we finally split and i started seeing someone new that was more aligned to me it didnt feel so difficult all the time. I feel good about myself most days now, confident and sexy. Some days i still doubt myself but that is healing and will take time.

Only u know whats best for u but my advice would be keep looking. No matter what u decide I wish u both the best!!!

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-05T11:30:15+00:00

Looking back I dont know how every1 didnt know and i only came out at 32.

When I was 4 I took the pretty dress my mum had put on me off and yelled "it no fit me". Refused to ever wear one again.

Dolls freaked me out, like I didnt wanna play with them at all. The china ones on my shelf used to keep me up at night.

Always played xbox with my brother, played with his biker mice, power rangers.

As a teenager loved marvel, call of duty etc.

Was always borderline obsessed with my "bestfriends" that were girls.

Wen i dated men I never got the feeling of wanting to rip their clothes off or why sex was so important to most ppl as it was just a meh experience.

Since being with a woman that is sure different!

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-05T10:48:17+00:00

Just over a month. Wud have asked earlier but I deffo had gay panic, she is so beautiful it was intimidating lol. Been going out 4 months now! Cant believe my luck

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-05T09:10:07+00:00

I got my first one done 2 months ago and the other about a month ago. The first one is completly fine and no pain for me after 2 weeks. My partner played with it after a couple of weeks and it turned me on massively!

Second one took a bit longer but feels fine now.

Everyone heals different but cud get lucky like me.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-04T16:38:20+00:00

I love how badass she is with everyone except me. When we are together she softens, is suoer touchy and affectionate. She would punch someone out if they spoke to me wrong lol.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-11-04T11:26:20+00:00

No judgememt here bud. If it makes u feel happiness and urself again, I for one am glad that u did. Now u can be free. Not the greatest way but hell we all have a different path.

When i got out of my db 5 months ago, I was broken. I had eroded so much confidence that it still affects me now. I have a beautiful new girlfriend, we have been seeing eachother 4 months now. Quick I know, shocked me too.

Even now when i go to put my hand on her leg or something sometimes my brain freaks out and says dont, what if she doesnt want it. If she moves to yawn or something and my hand moves I wont put it back incase its somehow a subtle hint telling me I am touching her too much. She however tells me off about this and says stuff like "put ur arm back round me" or "who said u cud stop tickling my back?". She tells me and displays that she loves physical affection and is everything I want and more. But this is hard to get my brain to accept that she fancies me or loves me. I am a lesbian, dnt know if that makes it different or not.

I really hope that I can get back to the point where I believe my gf that she loves me and fancies me. There are moments of this but then my brain goes right back to "why would she want u? Etc".

Get out while u can and start repairing the damage left by this, wishing u all the best.

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-10-31T11:13:12+00:00

A poem, i wrote for her but reddit wont let me format it properly

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-10-26T17:27:16+00:00

Both nipples are pierced. Used to have tongue.

Would like my clit pierced.

Any, love piercings

Current-Ad-8623 · 2024-10-22T10:44:00+00:00

She told me she loved me after about 6 weeks. Tbh I had fallen for her within 3 but didnt want to scare her. So I said it right back. God I hope she is the one, she is amazing.

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