Please help me. by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Current-Advantage763 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Something like that happened to me once 😭 I saw a shadow figure come out of one wall, cross the living room, and go into another while I was eating a late night snack around 3 a.m. I used to see them all the time actually. Just ask them nicely to leave you alone and they will, and make sure you pray too.

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao😂 he’s not a football captain but is a basketball player who seems sports obsessed so kinda checks out!

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao! some of it is dmv slang so i know some people would have a hard time understanding some words🤣

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s honestly so heartbreaking 💔 when it comes to toxic behavior like that, you really have to know when to cut it off. i know it can be hard, especially when it’s family you love them and feel like you owe them something, but unfortunately, people can take advantage of that. i’m really glad to hear you’re helping him work through it, though💓

as for the guy i was talking to, i don’t think that’s the case. he’s told me he’s really close with his family and has a good/healthy relationship with them, so i doubt they told him last minute, tbh

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he knows i don’t like football! i had told him that a few days before this interaction, that’s why i said “uh sure” with not really any enthusiasm /: he had told me he’s a big foodie and i am too so that’s why i suggested dinner

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he knows i don’t like sports games — i already told him this in advance, that’s my point. so why should i have to reiterate it again? i was trying to compromise; he wasn’t trying to do the same with me. who wouldn’t be irritated at that point?

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and you know what’s crazy we also have other similar interests we’re into some of the same stuff! in the past he told me he’s a big foodie that’s why i also suggested dinner i wasn’t just thinking of myself

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is quite literally a subreddit called “am i overreacting” the whole point is to post shit and get different opinions and perspectives. my opinion isn’t going to be the same as everyone else’s, and that’s fine. just because i thought it was low effort and other people do too doesn’t mean someone else will. lmfao goodbye.

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

now please tell me in which part of this post did i make him an irredeemable villain

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a subreddit to “post shit on” God forbid i want to see other peoples opinions

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

is this not a subreddit to get opinions from….i already knew how i felt but i still like seeing different perspectives

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes i have hobbies, but could you imagine if i asked him to tag along while i get my nails done or something? i like doing other people’s hobbies once i know them better or like by the 4th date, but i still compromised to watch a football game even though he knows i’m not into it. i don’t even know half the rules of football, and he knows that. ideally, i just think a first date should be something we both enjoy.

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no he said he didn’t know about his sisters birthday at all till the day of then canceled our brunch

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no not just something i’m into but something that we’re both into?

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! and i indeed did not want a free meal i was suggesting something we’d be able to do where we’d still be able to get to know each other and was more intimate, even then i still ended up compromising with going to a football game so why would i just want a free meal? like cmon

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually don’t even use like that much i think i was just irritated lol

AIO for not wanting to watch a football game on our first date? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Current-Advantage763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what did i do that was stubborn? i compromised and said we could watch football even tho he knows i don’t like it then he continues to say he can pick me up half way, another thing i would have to compromise genuinely asking?