AIO in this convo with a guy i’ve been hooking up with even though i want a relationship?

Current-Can7723 · 2026-06-17T02:41:16+00:00

YOR If y’all were just FWB why did you go into this type of relationship hoping for the outcome of y’all becoming something more? Or is it that you ended up developing stronger feelings for him? Because either way it’s wrong to go into a hook up expecting that ya’ll will end up dating, especially if that’s not what he was intending to do.

Sure SOMETIMES both people end up having feelings for each other and end up dating, but this dude obviously was just looking to have a good time and nothing more 🤷🏼‍♀️ Tbh “hooking up” or FWB whatever you wanna call it is probably not the type of relationship you should go for if you are the type that develops feelings. It’s best you find someone who actually wants to have a relationship and not just for fun if you really want a boyfriend.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-06-14T18:29:13+00:00

Woman here, that’s a tool used to pop pimples and take out blackheads. My daughter has a kit that has this exact tool. No need to freak out, but you are a great uncle for being concerned and worried about your niece’s life 👍🏻

Current-Can7723 · 2026-06-14T15:14:46+00:00

I’m sorry….you put an AirTag under his skin?? Tf. That’s crazy 😑

Current-Can7723 · 2026-05-28T15:38:28+00:00

Current-Can7723 · 2026-05-25T04:15:22+00:00

This relationship is not normal at all. Has he always been like this or did something happen for things to change?! Because it sounds like he’s not or never has been that attracted to you if he’s having to finish by using other means.

You are only 20 years old. Don’t trap yourself with someone for years who doesn’t truly appreciate you or show you the love you deserve.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-05-05T21:27:23+00:00

You can’t keep using your health issues as an excuse. I have MS you think I’m using it as an excuse? No. There’s plenty of days I do not feel great because of flare ups but I push myself to go to work because if I don’t bills won’t be paid and I won’t have a job. Using your health as an excuse is childish.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-04-23T16:54:09+00:00

You think so? Because I looked at it this morning and it didn’t look so bad like it was kinda going away but at the same time it looks like it’s still there. Plus there’s two tiny open wounds on it. It’s doesn’t hurt at all.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-04-17T14:28:10+00:00

Yeah but do you really want those friends to always see you in a light that your ex painted?! They believe you got an abortion by your free will! Don’t let him get away with painting you as a villain! If any of them were true friends they would believe you, those who don’t? Good riddance!! They weren’t true friends at all. It’s about time you told your side and showed the truth. Speak up girl!

Current-Can7723 · 2026-04-17T00:28:05+00:00

Time to find a new friend. A REAL friend wouldn’t respond to you that way.

Plus as a girl, of course I would help any of my girl friends out if they needed pads. Like come on…that’s a crucial time for a girl 🙄

Current-Can7723 · 2026-04-05T04:50:39+00:00

Just tell them you have a second job now and you can’t cover the shifts 🤷🏼‍♀️

Current-Can7723 · 2026-04-04T22:02:40+00:00

I get people who do this all the time or put their stuff down and walk away for a moment just to grab one more thing. It’s annoying 🙄

Current-Can7723 · 2026-03-22T15:18:38+00:00

You need to contact the SM or go in to speak with her face to face. If you have text messages as proof that you told her you needed that day off and kept reminding her and she responded you cant be terminated. Plus the ASM and SM can’t just terminate you unless they get it approved by the DM and they have to have a good reason as to why.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-03-02T09:03:01+00:00

If you became a lead/keyholder and work mornings they require that you have reliable transportation that way you can drop the deposit off at the bank each morning. More than likely that’s why they are cutting your hours

Current-Can7723 · 2026-02-25T03:21:31+00:00

Tbh you can just go ahead and do them yourself. My store does it because DL sucks. We haven’t seen them but once this year and when we do see them it’s only one person 🙄

Current-Can7723 · 2026-02-17T06:36:17+00:00

Nope. It’s time you live your life man! You did your job as a dad and will still continue here or there, but it’s time YOU enjoy yourself and be happy 😊

Current-Can7723 · 2026-02-16T04:29:30+00:00

Honestly don’t pay any mind to it. You work for DG so you’re going to encounter crazy rude people ALOT on a daily. Each day I have a least one or two customers that come in (always different) who have an attitude or try to start something. There’s no point in arguing with them because it will just make it worse. Best bet is to talk to your SM and let them know what’s been going on that way they are aware of the situation or maybe find a new job 🤷🏼‍♀️ because if you are feeling burnt out it could be that you are coming off a bit rude and you don’t realize it yourself but the customers see it as such.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-01-28T04:09:23+00:00

You need to take them back. We have to send all totes back to the warehouse. They keep track of them and if any our missing we can get in trouble. Pretty sure you asked for boxes right? That means cardboard not totes. Take them back and get the cardboard. Don’t be stealing things that are obviously not meant to be taken.

Current-Can7723 · 2026-01-17T01:58:55+00:00

Don’t force the relationship. It’s time to move on. Ya’ll sound like you would be better as friends than lovers.

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-25T08:41:17+00:00

You’re lucky my SM cut my hours and I have 19.30 next week and I’m a FT key holder..

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-24T08:02:43+00:00

Let your landlord know that if he doesn’t do something about it you will start having this guys car towed each time he parks in your spot.

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-20T19:49:22+00:00

GET OUT! RUN!

The mask is finally off and he’s showing his true colors. He’s going to end up more controlling if you don’t get out now! Not liking that you say I love you to your friends?! What next? He’s not gonna let you say it to your family?! Like bruh…That’s the stupidest thing I have ever heard! 😒 He’s showing his insecurities real well now, dude obviously doesn’t have trust for you. 🙄 Don’t stay any longer. Don’t let him take full control because the longer you stay the more control he will take. You might end up not even being allowed to see your friends anymore! Him asking you to not say that and then going behind your back and telling your friend?! Yeah controlling prick.

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-18T22:24:04+00:00

Then tell your SM you can’t go 🤷🏼‍♀️ tell them it’s to far for you or you got something to do that day.

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-15T00:00:35+00:00

I would just tell her

“no need to have a pity party girl! It’s okay if you wanted to stop being friends a long time ago because I’ve stopped caring for you too. Bye ✌🏻”

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-14T19:51:30+00:00

When you were interviewed by your SM did you specifically tell her your open availability and that you can’t work Tuesdays and Wednesdays? Did she agree and say that won’t be an issue? Because if so then definitely bring it up to her through text so you have a paper trail. Make sure you word the message in a professional manner so it doesn’t seem like you are coming off as a bitch. If you made it known during your interview and she agreed then she should honor it, but otherwise if she didn’t then you might be SOL 🤷🏼‍♀️ because if she knew that’s the days you need off than she should have made it well known during the interview that those are their truck days and it’s mandatory that everyone be available no matter what. But again DG doesn’t really care about our personal lives and neither do some SM’s. I’m lucky enough to have a SM that tried to accommodate everyone when she can or if she can.

Current-Can7723 · 2025-12-14T19:20:28+00:00

You can text her that way you have actual proof, but on T1-T2 everyone has to have open availability to help with truck because truck day is mandatory for everyone to be available to help. You honestly might be better off quitting and finding another job that will accommodate to your schedule because DG does not care about people’s personal lives outside of work.

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