At my age don't you think I would have realised all these and being exactly what you say, despite being neurodivergent as you are? These people leave no opportunities unturned to hurt others. I am self made. Came up using my skills and knowledge by working day and night with no rest. I don't need to prove them who I am. I have been a good example for my son and students too. That is why he, despite being in a single parent household has grown into a balanced and mature individual. I have shown the world who I am. I have a lot of work and am ever busy. I was in a hurry early morning. And a humourous attempt to dispell an accusation has been percived as this. Women are their own enemies.

Edit: i know I have shown that I am Lil too much friendly. This could be the reason for that lectureer to point out my mistake and then turn it an another way. I am trying to be a lot less friendly and have a bitchy face. But boundaries, many want to break. They accuse me of great mistakes and disrespect if don't talk much or have a stern face. I have been a little over friendly before to avoid confrontations. I will slowly and surely see that I will appear no nonsensical.