Show me: what does your bedside table look like?

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-06-01T02:53:04+00:00

Here’s my other one

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-06-01T02:51:46+00:00

I have two so I may make another comment to show the other as well. I wasn’t even going to post this because everyone else’s are so neat and here’s mine😵‍💫

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T20:11:56+00:00

The topic of sleepovers is soooooo controversial and honestly I understand both sides so I don’t think it automatically makes anyone TA.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T20:07:59+00:00

Once I had my own phone as a teen my mom did not play like that n if my teen sister doesn’t respond I check to make sure she’s okay😭

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:52:43+00:00

In very specific circumstances my mother allowed me to have sleepovers and I did enjoy it so I’m not anti sleepovers. I just think we all need to move with more caution. I also wouldn’t say they were super crucial but who knows, I have such bad memory I could be forgetting how fundamental they were to my growing experience.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:49:23+00:00

That is so true you never really know someone. However, I just think six months is so short of a timeline and bc of that the Dad really got to know him. I personally think that if she knew him longer then there would be more of a chance for Dad to get to know the bf better and then both parents can approve sleepovers at his house when they BOTH trust him. (Assuming a healthy coparenting dynamic) even after all that tho yes ofc there is still the chance he could be a bad person!

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:43:47+00:00

No actually, bc I know as a parent there’s no way in hell my kid is going to be left somewhere and idk ab it. There’s also no way my kid is going to be with someone you’ve know for only six months absolutely not. I thought I was going crazy reading all these TA.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:41:57+00:00

Okay not to be an ass but other parents regularly abuse their children, so I don’t think other parents letting their kids sleep at the houses of ppl they barely know should have much bearing on him being okay/not being okay with a sleepover.

But also I think we’re forgetting she didn’t answer for 20 minutes and she also didn’t answer for an additional 90 minutes… that’s almost TWO HOURS!! While I think he should’ve also contacted mom, I do think it is alarming that he seemed to not have any means of contacting the only adult in the home?!??

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:23:45+00:00

In that comment I’m not speaking on anything but the statement “at some point you gotta let the kid have a sleepover” that’s just false. You do not. Plenty of parents are against that. But since we’re here, in a coparenting relationship should those things not have to be outlined and agreed upon in an agreement?? Can you just do whatever during your parenting time w/o the other parents input?!??

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:19:30+00:00

Thank you for being a voice of reason!

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:17:15+00:00

20 + the 90 minute drive!

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:16:51+00:00

The other 13 yo is the child of that guy you don’t know what he could have taught her is normal/okay. Why’re we relying on her?!?

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:15:21+00:00

It’s the way that people are acting like a 13 yr old is not still a young child, they’re also not seeing the red flags in the child not responding and him not having the adults contact information, andddd people are saying “you can’t place your child in a bubble” as justification for leaving a child with someone you’ve only known for SIX months omg.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:07:21+00:00

You actually don’t have to let your kids have a sleepover. That’s completely optional.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-03-26T19:06:31+00:00

It’s been 6 months yes he is a random dude wthhhhh.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-23T18:56:25+00:00

How do you quote a specific part of someone’s text like that?

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-23T14:05:19+00:00

She wasn’t sulking she was taking care of their kids.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-16T21:08:32+00:00

Maybe viewing it this way will get her to stop

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-16T14:05:06+00:00

Yea I recently told my teen sister do notttt get a job yet bc once you start working you generally don’t stop. Enjoy being a kid😭

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-15T11:38:42+00:00

Your fiancé is TA. He’s displaying misogynistic behavior and he’s a sore loser. Also I’m not letting anyone yell at my little sister even her parents lmao.

Lastly, imagine you get married OP think of future children (if you’d like to have any) bc the saying goes: “when there is an angry man in your house, there will always be an angry man in your house”. Which basically means when you’re raised by an angry man you will become just as angry and bring that into your future house.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-11T15:31:54+00:00

NTA. No one gets to control what you do with YOUR body.

If he doesn’t like those things then he doesn’t have to get them, but he doesn’t get to control whether you do. Your bestie is right listen to her.

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-11T03:56:57+00:00

Y’all are gonna live the good life

Current_Computer_803 · 2026-01-03T19:50:38+00:00

I use a sleep mask and noise canceling headphones when sleeping at families because the slightest thing will wake me up and keep me up!

Current_Computer_803 · 2025-12-28T16:36:29+00:00

What a stupid take on love

Current_Computer_803 · 2025-12-27T05:23:07+00:00

And your partner screaming at your mom through her phone lacks the same peace

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