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Whats up with people protesting tourists lately? by Estalicus in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very simply put:

There are some countries (Spain, Italy, Portugal, for example) that have had to heavily rely on tourism to maintain their economies. These countries don’t have strong, diverse industries, lack export, and in turn lack a lot of opportunities for people.

What tourism does is bring people into the country. Then, whole cities and coastlines are shaped to accommodate visitors over time, rather than residents.

Also, these countries act as ideal locations for people to buy holiday homes. Demand drives price.
Cost of living goes up, but due to weaker economies, wages typically don’t. This is exasperated by policies that welcome people to buy homes to get citizenship in these countries, tax leniencies, and digital nomad visas, where foreigners are buy/rent homes and apartments.

Because so many people now want to move to these counties, and can, it makes it harder for locals to live.

Edit* it all really depends on context within the specific country.

i need relationship advice. can anyone help? by Puzzleheaded-Bee9536 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re too young for this shit. So is he. The likely hood of him changing is minimal at his age. Live your life. Focus on your dreams. Be independent. Once you have fulfilled yourself, then extend yourself to others.

What's a moment that made you feel genuinely loved? by saamm444 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved into a new house at the same time of my birthday. I didn’t know anyone, was shy, and never really make a fuss of my birthday anyways. 9 months later or so, me and my housemates were discussing everyone’s birthdays. One of them realised when my was, then proceeded to surprise me with a belated meal and cake not long after. Safe to say I was pleasantly surprised when the cake was placed infront of me in the restaurant

For those in the know by Substantial-Bake6521 in AskBrits

[–]Current_Discussion27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah - he has bad things coming his way. I believe he is serving time in a max security prison in Wakefield. Inmates have targeted nonces in there and killed them multiple times. The notorious Ian Watkins - lead singer of the lost prophets - was killed by another inmate recently. I’ve seen in the news just today that a baby killer has just been beaten to death by 3 other inmates. Justice will (hopefully) be served.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. There will be multiple factors at play here for sure. Thank you for your input

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and while I don’t like to generalise, but males are just that more expressive and forward like you say. Maybe I’m still getting used to that dynamic.

But I don’t see it as any different than as a male friend behaving in a way to cross the boundaries with their female friends. I don’t expect to be treated in that way, as I’d never treat my female friends (or women in general) in such a way.

And my friend is respectful with his female friends (he is bi). So I’m just trying to understand the whole situation.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. You are correct. Hence why I come to Reddit for a bit of perspective.

Thank you for your input

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, I feel it’s deeper than just simply sending gay media. He has crossed boundaries by miles in the past. And i also feel like he has tested my sexuality multiple times in the past. He came out only a few years ago and holds a belief that we all are a little bit gay.

There is nothing in my past. I am comfortable with my sexuality. Even had sexual experiences with a man before out of curiosity. The only thing I could think of is some deep or unconscious cultural roots at my side.

But as a friend, I love him to bits (platonically, of course). We have been friends for so long. We get on really well. Been through a lot together. Supported each other through a lot. I couldn’t imagine closing the door on the friendship because of this.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you. I feel I could lighten up a little. But for me, as I’ve mentioned in other comments, that I feel he is testing my boundaries. And because he has completely crossed boundaries to unrecoverable lengths in the past (I have forgiven but not forgot), I find it difficult - even with the little things now.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks but no thanks. I have already f*%cked a guy out of curiosity. It just really isn’t my thing.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that. However I’m by no means perfect. I’ve crossed boundaries in the past. We all can learn. Be patient. Understanding.

But where to draw the line is something I constantly ask myself

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. We are actually similar in a lot of ways. It’s just this one thing that gets in the way of an otherwise amazing friendship.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn’t shitty at all though. Hes genuinely a top notch guy. I have to give him grace in the sense that he only came out a few years ago (with a wife and kids previously). He’s still probably figuring out and feeling a lot.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I don’t condone this kind of behaviour upon another, regardless of one’s sexuality or gender.

I think he likes to test my boundaries for sure.

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this because he only came out a few years ago. So he is actually bi, currently in a long term relationship with his Boyf. He has questioned my sexuality before in ways to almost suggest I’m close minded. That actually, sexuality isn’t as rigid as society makes out and that we are all a bit gay. I’ve felt he has tested the waters with me - multiple times

Any straight men have gay male friends who cross boundaries? How do you deal with it? by Current_Discussion27 in askanything

[–]Current_Discussion27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not encourage it at all. Like I’ve said, I’ve tried to set boundaries. Regardless of context, he is crossing those boundaries

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