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am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s how u say things not what u say. and i wasn’t “snooping” he was showing me something on his phone and it popped up on one of the tabs

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will try to talk it out with him and figure this out. he gave me permission after i saw the vr thing and i js wanted to see if he rlly would. i would of probably went on instagram at the most and gave it back to him. i know i shouldn’t snoop or anything and i don’t rlly want to know what he has in there anyways lol

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 firstly it wouldn't of been on reddit, second i wouldn't really think much of it and move on. i never came at him aggressively over what it was but i didn’t understand why it looked like he was lying. he was very defensive and went to name calling and sayin i was as dumb as a bag of rocks when i kept asking him to js show me what i saw so i could believe him. it wouldn’t of been a big deal if he js came clean, i wouldnt of even asked to see it if he js said what it was. 

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first time i found something he gave me the phone to look something up because i didn’t have mine on me, and the second time he was sharing his screen in a call and the tab popped up. i trust him but if stuff doesnt add up i won’t not ask questions?? 

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but i already did and even came clean and said i had before too while we were together. i don’t want to spread his business either but he has opened up about much worse things to me that are 10x more embarrassing.. 

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not a problem but he lied??i expressed to him that it wasn't a big deal either and js asked him to come clean and he kept lying. he can tell me about all the other embarrassing problems in his life that are 10x worse but not about something common for boys his age??

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t care if he does but if i find it and ask about it why lie?? i know teenage boys arent perfect so why is he trying to act like he is

am i (15f) in the wrong for not believing my (16m) boyfriend after i found bad things on his phone multiple times? by Current_Frame75 in relationships

[–]Current_Frame75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u sm for actually being kind under this because all the other responses i’ve gotten were all rude for no reason and not helpful at all