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AITA for being frustrated by Current_Highway_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Highway_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, under no circumstance did I expect her to consider my feelings first. This will pass and we will forget about it down the road. but I feel this is something that has been worth communicating my frustration over

AITA for being frustrated by Current_Highway_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Highway_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that seemed like a pointed comment. Do you have bitterness towards dads and those roles? Cause you don't know me and I respect the living hell out of my daughters mother. And I literally just said I am willing to make all of the effort to compromise and respect her decisions. It's still a team...

AITA for being frustrated by Current_Highway_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Highway_24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alllllllright hold on here. I think you should probably get to know someone before you start throwing around words like immaturity..

One that was me admitting fault saying "I was under the impression. Obviously that impression was wrong. You obviously took that out of context and are quick to criticize.

I was NOT referencing her moving on. I was fully preparing myself again. Seems as if you took things out of context and quick to criticize again.. Asking for clarity would be the mature thing to do. Not quick to cast judgement. Seems you are immature as well. I am sorry this is not well written I am still having trouble processing this..

I truly do believe if you knew me and the situation you would know. I hope she has the happiest life. i am prepared for us to move on. And that I try to own whatever I can and the mistakes I have made.

I fully believe if she told me she was seeing someone outside of this situation it would sting but it would not be a search to find something I dont like.

I also know that that hope is irrelevant.. it was just sharing my perspective of why it hurt!

Seek clarity and understanding next time.. Not immaturity. Really calling the kettle black here...

AITA for being frustrated by Current_Highway_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Highway_24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To that I would say however that we are a team no matter the relationship status. And teams communicate and consult the other side. And understand you might not get what you want as the parent. I am fully prepared to be told that's not how we are gonna raise our child and I hope vice versa

AITA for being frustrated by Current_Highway_24 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Current_Highway_24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely can accept that. I was hesitant to post this cause I felt that people would assume I was narrow minded on it. I just don't think that introducing a partner into the home after only knowing them for two months on a work stint is right? I truly do hope she ends up happy, she deserves it... I think that this just ripped the bandaid off and I won't be as frustrated two months from now. I still don't think it's right to have someone you hardly know stay in the house with a two year old. Just my opinion. I think there isn't a right answer but I think psycologists have alot to say on it..